If your husband can fill 12.5kg cooking gas.,buy crates of eggs... subscribe cable TV, buy data and fuel generator in this present condition of Nigeria...
Madam please give that man some REAL PEACE OF MIND.
“You Went To School, I Went To School. You Graduated, I Graduated. You’re Working, I’m Working. 7 Years After Graduation… You’re Meeting Me And You Want Me To Marry You, And You’re Asking Me If I Have a Car Or a House. So Tell Me… Why Don’t You Have a Car Or a House? We’ve Both Been Earning Salaries For The Past 7 Years. What Did You Do With Your Own Money? Make it, Make Sense.”
This works in relationships too. Never beg for love. The only time an apology is warranted is when you are genuinely wrong, outside of that, never beg for affection. Never plead for someone to stay, to care, to choose you. It reeks of desperation, and desperation has never once made anyone more desirable. As Duma Boko said, “if they want to leave, help them get out.”
"I own this fully. I am committed to rebuilding trust through consistent actions, not just words. But I also know trust is not demanded, it is earned back slowly, if at all...
Whether you accept my apology or not, I respect your feelings and your right to hold me accountable."
Open Apology Letter to the Obidient Movement
My Dear Obidient Family, I come before you today with a heavy heart, deep humility, and no excuses. Some time ago, in a moment of frustration and immaturity, I wrote and released a resignation letter as Director of Mobilization. In that letter, I allowed deep frustration & personal emotions to cloud my judgment. I made statements that subtly and unnecessarily dragged Peter Obi, a man I still respect for his vision, integrity, and sacrifice for this nation. That was wrong. It was childish, and beneath the standard I should have upheld, especially as someone who once held a leadership position in this movement.
I take full responsibility. No one forced me to write it. No one edited it. It came from me, and it was a mistake. I deleted the letter afterwards, but I know deletion does not erase the damage, the disappointment, or the loss of trust many of you felt. I understand why some of you no longer respect me the way you once did. You had every right to feel let down.
To Peter Obi himself (fondly called PO): Sir, I am sincerely sorry. My words were not a true reflection of the values of sacrifice, accountability, and constructive criticism that you preach. I failed in that moment. To every single Obidient, the ones who stayed grinding, the ones who defended the vision even when it was tough, the ones who felt betrayed by my actions, I am deeply sorry. You are the real heroes of this movement. Many of you are young people full of hope and fire for a better Nigeria. You didn’t deserve to see internal cracks turned into public drama. I let you down.
I am not writing this because I want something or a position in the movement as I’m enjoying private life. I am writing it because it is the right thing to do. Leadership is not only about when the road is sweet and smooth; it is also about owning up when you mess up. I own this fully. I am committed to rebuilding trust through consistent actions, not just words. But I also know trust is not demanded, it is earned back slowly, if at all. Thank you for reading this.
Whether you accept my apology or not, I respect your feelings and your right to hold me accountable. The love I have for a better Nigeria has not changed. You all know me. My respect for the Obidient spirit remains. I am sorry truly.
With humility and hope for forgiveness,
Your brother in this struggle,
Morris Monye.
Oya come let’s hug. 😊
If a man says “If she hits me, i’ll knock her the fvck out back”..
Why do you think Women still fight the narrative that you should be a gentleman and ‘walk away’ ?
Do you get the clear nuance now or I should continue bro ?
If a man says “If she hits me, i’ll knock her the fvck out back”..
Why do you think Women still fight the narrative that you should be a gentleman and ‘walk away’ ?
Do you get the clear nuance now or I should continue bro ?
Nigeria is a society where those whose circumstances closely resemble this guy are celebrating on behalf of the rich people who got him jailed, because they feel much more empathy for rich people than they do for themselves.
Everyday I see why colonisation was possible...
They are beginning to wake up to what I have been shouting since.
Most people “cashing out” in Nigeria are doing so at the expense of those who aren’t. The economy is not designed for everyone to cash out - which is why that your breakthrough prayer is the same as wishing others fail so you can succeed.
It’s a dog eat dog economy.
To be very direct: the Dagote’s, the Otedola’s, the Adeleke’s, the Elumelu’s, the Tinubu’s are rich because you are poor.
This is why I laugh when poor people worship billionaires in Nigeria. You are only perpetuating your poverty.
This cannot exist in the same space with hypergamy. You cannot claim to carry good luck and still want someone who is signicantly doing much better than you so you can benefit. You carry good luck but only date rich guys so you can take the glory.
Give the good luck to your father
Na food wey you never chop dey give anxiety. The person that has eaten the food many times, doesn't have that anxiety. It's just another day.
Law of diminishing return happens in sex but people hate to admit it because it is an uncomfortable conversation and a dereliction of the expected behaviour of the religious and faithful - for very good reasons. Also, it is a lot when you're beholden to someone.
This is not a defence. It is an explanation. It will not save you from the consequences of your actions.
"You are not looking for advice, you only have inferiority complex that makes you want to prove to who never cares that you are wanted, even by a married friend."
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Agba, my own is that the guy is not a true friend.
1. Your wife friend called you when her husband travelled that it was urgent.... the first thing to do was to tell your friend that the wife is calling you for urgent meeting but you went, looking for oppurtunity to smash or prove she loves you.
2. You stayed discussing somethings that are not supposed. Creating two in her heart and you didn't run. You are just waiting for a strong reason to smash, oga.
Even if your friend wife is a whore that sleeps with everyone and she comes to you directly, prove the friendship.
They are two things that seperate friendsahip. Money and women. So why sacrifice your friendship for a woman that will still sleep with other men.
You are not looking for advice, you only have inferiority complex that makes you want to prove to who never cares that you are wanted, even by a married friend.
You will end up in pain if you don't run away from her. Go to your friend house, if you must, only when he is around.
Have you ever heard flee from every appreances of evil?
Just so you know, this is not because the system is broken but because we never thought it was worth fixing.
I have a https://t.co/0nj6bkCGQL,Ed and a MEd from the Nigerian education system. I watched brilliant, committed people study curriculum theory, developmental psychology, pedagogy, and assessment for years, just to enter a profession that the same government treats like a fallback option for people who could not get in anywhere else. And now JAMB has formalized that disrespect.
Ask yourself one question: would we ever do this for Medicine and Surgery? Would we say, “you know what, anyone who wants to be a doctor does not need to pass UTME?” Of course not. Because people would die, and we would see it. Dead body go surplus ba? Yeah.
But here is the truth nobody wants to say out loud. The damage a poorly trained teacher does is just as lethal. It is only slower. It shows up twenty years later in citizens who cannot think critically, who are vulnerable to propaganda, who will collect N5,000 and vote against their own future, who will join a secret cult because nobody ever taught them their own dignity. You cannot separate the collapse of Nigerian civic life from the collapse of Nigerian teacher education. They are the same story.
Finland did not become Finland by accident. Denmark did not become Denmark by accident. The countries we admire for their infrastructure, their rule of law, their social trust, their cleanliness, their decency, built those things first in classrooms, with teachers who were selected from the top of their graduating cohorts and paid and respected accordingly. Teaching in Finland is as competitive as Medicine. That is not a coincidence.
Our leaders cannot see this because they are not building for a future they will not live to enjoy. They want to name senate buildings after themselves today like Mimiko did in Ondo State. They want to build stadiums and name it after themselves like Godswill Akpabio. Nobody gets a plaque for producing a generation of thoughtful citizens. Nobody cuts a ribbon for that. And so it does not get done.
Also, prioritizing petroleum engineers and tech gurus give them the ammunition they need to continuously take advantage of our natural resources and fintech opportunities to make millions. But for teachers who raise viable citizens? Nah! No instant reward.
This JAMB policy is not a mistake. It is a value statement. It tells you exactly what this system thinks of teachers, of education, of the human beings those teachers will spend their lives shaping. And until we are as outraged about that as we are about fuel prices or naira depreciation, we will keep producing the same country, and then wondering why nothing ever changes.
Everyone at @JAMBHQ should be ashamed of themselves.
Don't mind him. This is why as a woman, you must do your own back by being the bread winner so you can cheat as you like and send a cheating man back to his parents. Buy car for that man, sponsor his masters, build a business for him, fund his accounts make him know say babe mount.
2027: Nigeria’s Next President Has Already Been Decided by God — Pastor Adeboye Reveals
The General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Enoch Adeboye, has declared that Nigeria’s next president ahead of the 2027 general elections has already been chosen by God.
Speaking at a workers’ meeting at Redemption City Adeboye said the outcome of the election ultimately lies beyond human control. “The next president has already been decided by God who owns the universe, the will of God will be done,” he stated, urging Nigerians not to be anxious about political developments.
While encouraging civic participation, the cleric stressed that divine authority remains supreme in determining leadership, calling on citizens to remain prayerful and peaceful as 2027 approaches.
Adeboye also addressed remarks by activist Omoyele Sowore, who described him and other clerics as “fathers of Christians in Nigeria.” The pastor rejected the label, clarifying that he is only a spiritual leader within his denomination.
He maintained that national Christian leadership rests with the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), whose president represents Christians across the country.