@PainslutA@null_backdoorho This is like the stupid argument I saw weeks ago of "Bottoms who want or enjoy CNC are ok, but Tops who like it are icky and weird." Like HOW DO YOU THINK THE BOTTOMS GET TO EXPERIENCE IT.
I wanna stress this is NOT about coercion. This is about pretending you're fine when you aren't, while your partner isn't pressuring you in any way. It's more common than you think!
Literally one of the most frustrating things I witness in the kink community specifically. Bottoms with poor boundaries getting into dynamics where they assume their top will just magically know where they are mentally without any communication at all, and then blaming that top for taking advantage of them when at no point did they communicate within the container of their relationship.
I understand every dynamic is different and coercive control can happen in any relationship but I’m specifically frustrated with bottoms with poor communication skills and boundary setting who then turn around and call their partner an abuser for not being a mind reader.
[Minthara & Goblins]
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Goblins: @IRecshun
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