My thing is, if you’re gonna do weird shit stand on it. I hate ppl who throw rocks then hide their hands & wanna play victim when that shit catches up to them 😭😭😭
You have to watch a person’s actions and words to have a true understanding of who u dealing wit. W/o understanding there will b toxic ways and chaos. A whole mis management of emotions.
It upsets people more you don’t care what they think than you arguing with them. Most people want to feel validated, ignoring them makes them question their existence and if it’s actually valuable at all.
It’s not. Lol I only care about what’s important or beneficial.
Sometimes it’s easier to forgive others than it is to forgive ourselves. Your past doesn’t define your future. Don’t let the mistakes of your past define who you are today and who you will be tomorrow. We all make mistakes. Decide to learn from it and forgive yourself.
There are many bad things happening in the world & if you spend all day every day thinking about them, you’ll never live. Learn to give yourself a break, find some joy and just breathe.
Crazy how peaceful life becomes when you choose solitude over fake company, peace over drama, distance over disrespect, boundaries over people-pleasing, affection over attention, connection over attachment, mutual support over codependency, and healing over trauma bonding.
Get comfortable with being alone. Normalize it because not everyone deserves a place in your circle. Being alone isn't always being unhappy or lonely. Choose solitude for the sake of your peace till you find someone who doesn't disturb it. Choose those who add value to your life.