no, i don’t mind if dowoon invites his girlfriend to day6 events. no, i don’t mind if he prioritizes her over the fans. actually, i would be extremely disappointed if he did the opposite, if he didn’t act like a grown man who sets his priorities straight.
Men are smart. Men can read a room. Men can simply choose not to put themselves in vulnerable situations. This man should have protected himself by not walking around naked. He is giving wrong ideas to women. He is responsible for his own safety.
Men should:
- cover up (long sleeves, baggy clothes, nothing “tempting”)
- never leave the house after dark, alone
- not travel without a male chaperone, just in case
- avoid eye contact with women on the street
- text a friend their cab number, license plate, and live location
- keep a hand near the emergency button at all times
- not smile, not be “too friendly,” not give “mixed signals”
- not drink anything they didn’t pour themselves
- check the back seat before getting in any vehicle
- carry pepper spray, just in case a woman gets “the wrong idea”
People need to stop taking one person's opinion as the opinion of an entire fandom. Fandoms are huge, and most people don't even know each other. If there's one bad tweet, just ignore it instead of giving it views, fighting another fandom, and bringing it into the TL of your fav.
If I walked into a women's bathroom and saw a man trying to help his daughters, I'd ask if he needs help or I'd just wait outside until they’re done. The girls needed to use the bathroom and their dad chose the one where they wouldn't inadvertently see a man's penis at a urinal.
Girl dads:
Do not bring little girls into the men's room. We do not want little girls exposed to adult, male genitals.
You are welcome to bring your girl(s) into the women's restroom.
Just give a knock, say you're a girl dad coming in, and you'll be fine.