@CFC_OBED@nkaysyout I would agree with you if football was only about based your projected context but its your perspective and this is how it makes sense to you.
@Otis441D@therealansah I have seen situations where people are stigmatized and eventually traumatized for being Avoidant, if you address they complain and invalidate your feelings, if you don't, they complain about not finding a way to express yourself. It is almost like a lose lose