For a long time, the narrative has been that getting pregnant 🤰 and keeping the baby �� is trapping the man; but in reality it is the woman who is trapped.
There’s a certain type of privacy & alone time I require in order for me to feel like I’m still functioning and operating as an individual. I cannot do the codependency or enmeshment.
Patriarchy’s greatest move is getting women to enforce it on each other,now men don’t even have to say anything. Women in your life will do it,women in the market and on the internet will do it. The constant surveillance gets crowdsourced and they think they are helping you.
Anytime a man is imagining himself as a woman, it’s always in a soft girl, a baddie, a working class madam. It’s never a submissive wife, a full time house wife or a mother of 7.
We all know what we are doing
i am begging some of you to become ok with hearing not-so-great-things about yourself. especially if it is coming from a loved one that historically respects your agency. chances are you unknowingly crossed a boundary & someone is trying to tell you in a respectful way.
A moving woman will eventually understand feminism.
It is sacrosanct to your self actualisation that you see yourself worthy of the highest form of respect as a human being and not anything less because you’re a woman.
Again, a moving woman WILL learn feminism.
I’m gonna be real alot of you don’t think enough. When girls say that “no one told us motherhood was hard” I’m like baby… you have never thought of all the things your parents had to do for you? You never once were like I don’t wanna sacrifice all that? Like BE OBSERVANT,
The older I get, the less I think friendship is about finding one perfect person and the more I think it’s about assembling a committee. Every woman in my life seems to have arrived carrying a specific assignment. Nobody comes complete. Everybody specializes in something.