I find it endlessly amusing when men expect a level of domestic labour from me that I don't even do for myself. If I haven't built my own life around cooking every single day, what exactly makes you think you'll be the exception?
You, a full fledged adult can't regulate or control your emotions, yet you expect kids, literal babies to know how to regulate theirs and behave correctly? Okay.
Mdrrrrrrr ya pas de black power quand tu te balades aux mains d’une blanche. Genre je veux bien être ouverte d’esprit mais là c’est du foutage de gueule 😭
So many people in the replies talking about how they used to fantasize about dying by the hands of their parents when they were children, just so their parents would feel just a little bit of guilt
Yet people still think beating children is just discipline and not abuse.
While we are discussing physical abuse, let’s not forget verbal abuse. The reason we see many young people with severe cases of low self esteem is because they had parents who made them feel absolutely worthless.
Anytime I tell my mum that it's too late for us to be besties she starts to crash out. Like she literally has no recollection of how mean and unapproachable she use to be.
In her head, she was and has always been mother of the year. Girl bfr.
Because a LOT of them never wanted to be parents, they just see it as a societal expectation to fulfill. If you asked any one of them why they became parents you might never get a reasonable response.
you must believe you are special and then go so hard, for so long, with such violent refusal to accept any other ending, that reality itself starts running out of ways to tell you no. you must wage a war daily against the ordinary outcome, until the belief you invented out of nothing in a room by yourself has been hammered into the world so many times that it stops being a claim and becomes reality.
future historians are going to have a nightmare trying to explain why we ran out of drinking water because we needed to cool down the machines generating 4K AI fruit videos