JAY | IG:@thirdworldphenom 🇹🇹

Traveling Master Barber/Stylist/Hair•Artist/M•Producer. Visionary. Business-man

[JAY | IG:@thirdworldphenom 🇹🇹 @3rdworldphenom]

Ladies, it really just comes down to respect, support and peace, that's literally all it takes to unlock EVERYTHING else.

[JAY | IG:@thirdworldphenom 🇹🇹 @3rdworldphenom]

Show up for people, the WORTHY ones. It equips them to in turn show up for YOU.

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One of the VERY BEST things you can ever DO for someone, as a friend, but especially as a partner, is SHOW UP for and WITH them, where THEY'RE at, or where THEY are in need, and not so much of just where YOU want them to be, or what YOU particularly FEEL like doing.

[JAY | IG:@thirdworldphenom 🇹🇹 @3rdworldphenom]

Most people are conditioned to obtain things, not maintain, and in turn keep.

That's the disconnect right there.

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Too many people underestimate the importance of IQ in dating.

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Put God first so I know it's real.

[JAY | IG:@thirdworldphenom 🇹🇹 @3rdworldphenom]

Too many folk don't see their problem as A problem, and that's THE problem.

[JAY | IG:@thirdworldphenom 🇹🇹 @3rdworldphenom]

Help me save and afford me rest, so I know it's real.

[JAY | IG:@thirdworldphenom 🇹🇹 @3rdworldphenom]

Folk really be more in love with the idea of "love" than the reality of learning how to actually love on someone, properly.

[Josh @JoshuaOgundu]

People have to realize they are too lazy for the life they say they want

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Colorful guy working the front desk at my gym: "Oh hey...how's it going?*big smile*...you got a haircut???"

Sir, I like(love) vagina, sincerely.

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Everybody's not entitled to your time or your information.

[JAY | IG:@thirdworldphenom 🇹🇹 @3rdworldphenom]

The people who have no true intention or capacity to love and support you, as needed, will always be intimidated by the ones who actively support and show up for you fully.

[JAY | IG:@thirdworldphenom 🇹🇹 @3rdworldphenom]

Being considerate and mindful goes such a very long way with me, so if things ever get short between us, trust that it's a direct result of your negligence.

[Kofi @blackkingkofi]

Stay away from lazy people

[Sudeene Alva @SudeeneAlva]

"Some things you gotta skill your way through, Some things you gotta will your way through it" - Eric Thomas

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@Miss_Candis EXACTLY! As it should be! Beautifully said! In my opinion, if you aren't stepping into a romantic space with the fullest intent of being an ASSET to that person's life, etc., a relationship is not for you. Iron sharpens iron and if the goal isn't mutual GROWTH, what's the point?

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REAL structure that is, rooted in improvement, positive progression, and GROWTH... NOT egotistical "I'm the man!" dictation.

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Fellas, want a cheatcode to know if a woman could be a great partner for you? Introduce her to STRUCTURE...spiritually, mentally, emotionally, financially, etc.

If she resists that, remove her accordingly.

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Surround yourself with people who are willing to sacrifice and build, not just occupy and expect.