Most women must decide between 3 men:
1) A man she is intensely physically attracted to, but who destabilizes her life because heโs chaotic, impulsive, and probably addicted to something insane.
2) A man she feels safe with, but who does not sexually excite her at all.
3) A man she loves, but who energetically feels more like another child than a leader.
***there are rare exceptions of course. Men who create real sexual polarity without bringing chaos, dysfunction, or emotional instability with them. But most women never meet one.