Date in private. Heal in private. Love in private. Win in private. Move in silence. Oversharing ruins progress. People don’t need updates, they need boundaries. Half of your setbacks came from letting the wrong people watch too much of your process.
venting to a white person at work, no matter how lightly will get you punished in the long run. once i told a coworker (bc she asked) and said i was "nervous" about a big client meeting going well. (which is normal) and she told everyone i had anxiety. LOL