Honestly the best and safest way to enjoy fandom is to simply have a small circle of friends and or mutuals you interact with and keep away from bigger spaces
How to enjoy a fandom:
- Don't engage with discourse
- Engage with artists/creatives instead
- Block freely and often
- Try to limit your interactions to those +20 of age
- Don't become parasocial or put others on a pedestal
- Be kind and respectful to your peers