I did the "stop texting first" test on my best friend of 11 years. It’s been exactly a year… and I never heard from her again. I was always the one initiating, planning, and keeping the friendship alive. One day, I decided to just step back and see if she would reach out. Crickets. Not a single text to check inside 365 days. The craziest part? Right before Christmas, she organized a reunion with someone who ghosted both of us years ago and I didn’t even get an invite.
being autistic is getting told your whole life that you need to start caring what other people think then developing social anxiety and getting told you need to stop caring what other people think
“I don’t remember my childhood.” Lemme guess, you have allergies + you poop weird + you sleep weird + you feel dizzy when you stand up quickly + you’re weirdly sensitive to certain smells/sounds/tastes/textures + you struggle to do stuff you WANT to do + you’re often sad/nervous?
❗️ARTIST BEWARE ❗️
New scam!! Person sent me a reference sheet file that turned out to be a script, my partner (in cybersecurity) found it to likely be an Info/Crypto Stealer and would steal all your passwords, and hides itself via windows scheduler
DO NOT open VBS files
Sometimes male anger at ‘women getting special treatment’ reminds me of a gorilla experiment. One gorilla gets a banana every hour. The females next to him get one every four hours. Then someone decides to be ‘fairer’ and gives the females a banana every two hours instead. The original gorilla? He flips out. He’s still getting his banana every hour, but it feels like a loss because his advantage shrank.
That’s how a lot of men react to basic fairness for women: not as justice, but as theft.