I just want to love you like God loves you and you do the same for me. The only thing we need to do to be worthy of God’s love is to just exist. I don’t need you to need me and I don’t want to need you. I don’t need you to fulfill me and I have no desire to control you. The only necessity here is pure love and the desire to harmonize it.
Normalize being very direct, very straight to the point and very assertive. A surprising amount of tension in adult life exist because people avoid saying what they actually mean.
There's a Japanese legend that says, if you missed the bus, maybe you avoided the accident. If you got rejected, maybe you were saved from the wrong place. If they left, maybe they made room for who's coming.
The universe protects you in ways that look like bad luck at first. The job you didn't get. The person who walked away. The plan that fell apart at the last second. You called it misfortune. You questioned why everything kept going wrong for you. But maybe nothing was going wrong. Maybe it was protection you couldn't see yet.
When you start seeing it that way, everything shifts. Not everything that feels like a loss is actually a loss. Sometimes what hurts the most is what's quietly saving you from something worse. So trust the detour. The thing you're grieving might be the thing that saved you. The rejection might be redirection. The ending might be a beginning in disguise. You just can't see it yet. But one day you will.
the love you receive from someone who knows how to be alone is the most sincere there is because a solitary soul loves you by choice not out of the need for company
Nadie te ama más que tú cuando eliges dormir temprano, comer tu comida favorita, cuidar tu mente, mantenerte activo, ir al gimnasio e intentar cosas nuevas.