1. Dating someone with a huge age gap can be predatory.
2. Everybody can’t go with you on your journey.
3. The club ain’t all that.
4. Struggling just to say you have your own place is not ideal.
4. The American dream ain’t dreaming like they said it would.
5. You’re going to be winging it A LOT.
6. Maturity doesn’t always come with age.
7. It’s your responsibility to heal.
8. Metabolism changes will catch you off guard.
9. Going to bed at the same time every night will change your life. Yes, even on weekends.
10. Credit cards can be used to have a better quality of life.
11. People-pleasing can sometimes help you professionally.
12. You don’t have to repeat the cycle of abuse by spanking children.
13. Having a business/side hustle can help you reduce a lot of expenses.
14. You actually have to talk to people to make friends.
15. You will waste a lot of food if you don’t start eating at home.
16. Most people are emotionally stuck at the age when their trauma began.
17. A pill organizer is necessary.
18. It doesn’t matter that they are your parents, you may have to cut them off if they keep hurting you.
19. Alcohol is not your friend.
20. Turns out that avoiding your problems don’t actually make them go away.
Divorced so perhaps this will help you get married and stay married.
Communication isn’t key. Understanding is.
What they do & who they are when dating is amplified when married. Good or bad.
Forgiveness is beautiful but tricky. What you forgive, for some, is what you allow.
They will not always be the person you married. Ppl evolve. Some grow, some regress, be willing to love them for who they become as well.
Their family dynamic will become your dynamic once you are their family. Be mindful of how they treat those they love most.
Lastly, prioritize YOU in marriage. Someone can only love you as much as you love yourself and they can only give you the type of love you THINK you deserve. Learn to love you and that’ll pour over into them so when you can’t love you, they’ll have all the love you gave them to pour back into the marriage to keep it afloat.
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