i went back to school in my late 20’s and graduated college at 31 with 3 internships under my belt and full-time offer as an product manager at FAANG paying well over $200k a year.. don’t let anyone make you feel bad about doing things on your own time.
A lot of Black people fight against a functional Black community because they know they would have no place in it. The lowest common denominator needs to maintain dysfunction because without it they know they wouldn't exist. Its a sick survival mechanism.
i dated a nigga that was in every bitch likes bc it’s “not that serious” & he fucked everybody. then i dated a nigga who did not play that shit bc to him likes means you wanna fuck. you would NEVER catch him liking no girls pictures. & he fucked everybody.