I fell in love with this scripture:
“There will come a time when your tears will fall, not because of your troubles, but because God has answered your prayers.”
— 𝖧𝖠𝖡𝖠𝖪𝖪𝖴𝖪 𝟤:𝟥
Green flag:
•When he wants to communicate instead of giving you the silent treatment. Green flag.
•When he’s upset but still explains what bothered him instead of shutting down. Green flag.
•When he apologizes sincerely instead of defending bad behavior. Green flag.
•When he reassures you during difficult conversations instead of making you feel anxious. Green flag.
•When he listens to understand, not just to respond. Green flag.
•When he tells you he needs space instead of disappearing without explanation. Green flag.
•When he stays respectful even during arguments. Green flag.
•When he brings up problems calmly instead of bottling everything up. Green flag.
•When he communicates consistently instead of leaving you confused. Green flag.
•When he admits when he’s wrong without ego getting involved. Green flag.
•When he makes you feel emotionally safe enough to express yourself. Green flag.
•When he chooses honesty over mind games. Green flag.
•When he handles misunderstandings with maturity instead of manipulation. Green flag.
•When he tries to solve problems with you instead of against you. Green flag.
•When his actions and words match. Green flag.
Somebody said “The love you receive from someone who knows how to be alone is the most sincere there is.
A solitary soul loves you by choice, not out of a need for company.” and that’s so true.
Best Compliments to Give a Girl:
• “I like how your mind works.”
• “You have a calm, confident energy.”
• “You make conversations easy.”
• “You’re different in a good way.”
• “I feel relaxed around you.”
• “You’re surprisingly thoughtful.”
• “You have great taste.”
• “You make simple moments fun.”
• “Your presence stands out.”
• “You’re naturally attractive.”
Do you know how insane your voice work and training has to be for you to pull this! And Hamilton Dlamini did this so effortlessly for 3 full seasons in a telenovela, RESPECT! 🙌🏾
Being an adult can also be about catching up on things you missed out as a child. Buy that plushie, eat that ice cream everyday, watch that cartoon, hell start jokingly believing in Santa again, who’s gonna stop you??
i really dgaf what y'all normalize. I wanna get married , i wanna be a wife ,I wanna build a home , I wanna have a wedding, I wanna be so in love with ONE person 4eva 🥰🥰
It is sooo attractive when people apologize for responding late, or when they tell you they're unable to talk to you, the skill of communication is just so attractive.
No one can use my past against me . I’ll sit right at the table and tell you my story from the beginning to end . I own my mistakes, my failures, and every scar I earned along the way . I’ve made peace with the darkest chapters of my life. What’s tea for you is my testimony.
disturb me.
update me.
get upset when i do dumb things.
show your jealous side.
yap nonstop.
spam me with photos and texts.
tell me how your day went.
show me your fit.
call/facetime me anytime.
i love the little things.
My therapist told me:
“When a person grows up feeling unseen, they learn to love by over-giving. They pour into everyone else, hoping that, one day, someone will finally pour back into them. So they become the care taker. The fixer. The one who shows up, even when no one shows up for them.”
And the hardest part? Deep down, they're not trying to be strong. They're just waiting for someone to do for them what they've spent their whole life doing for everyone else.