You ain't a G until you lose it all, watch everything fall apart... Have the closest people switch up on you and still stand up, hold your head high, grind, take chances, and get it all back. That's the test.
It took me about 4 days of marriage to figure out why men are upset when their wives refuse sex because they’re “not in the mood”.
It’s not because men are selfish.
It’s because men spend their entire day doing things they’re “not in the mood for.”
He was not in the mood to…
Wake up early
Work overtime
Wash their truck
Lift heavy weights
Manage the finances
Please every customer
Train the new guy at work
Argue with their boss (again)
Fix the leaky faucet at midnight
Mow the lawn in the blazing heat
Deal with the insurance company
…and yet he did it all without complaining.
Then he asks her for one thing (sex) and she rejects him because she’s “not in the mood.”
That’s bullsh*t.
men don’t have “trust issues.” They have “I’ve seen this type of behavior before, and I refuse to go through the same thing again” issues.
Theory lies. Experience keeps receipts.
ain’t no point in being in a relationship if you gotta stay in survival mode or y’all not building towards nothing together .. if having sex and being on & off for years exciting to you then you need a reality check‼️
Demons will manipulate people to trigger your flesh. Don’t take the bait. Your reaction is their fuel. Starve the warfare by staying anchored in the Spirit. Because the Spirit doesn’t react, it discerns. The Spirit doesn’t take offense, it sees through the offense.