Aminat Ajibike Abubakar

Soft-life Muslima navigating Lagos, work, womanhood, and the chaos of adulthood.

[𝑰𝒅𝒓𝒊𝒔 𝑨. 𝑶𝒏𝒊 PhD @IdrisAOni1]

Please repost 🙏

[Kameelah❤️🧕 @TheCakegurl]

If you fry smoked panla before cooking it with stew, it tastes just like turkey.

[Aminat Ajibike Abubakar @4larwell]

@TheCakegurl You are one minute away from saying the truth 😭

[TOYIN ABRAHAM AJEYEMI @toyin_abraham1]

💯💯💯

[Akinyoola Ayoola (KamoState) @kamostatecomedy]

The official teaser for STARLOMO is here. 🌟

Lagos made him. Life tested him. The dream refused to die.

In cinemas September 25.

Directed by @kayodekasum
Produced by @muyibanti @barbara.babarinsa @kamo_state @kayodekasum

Distributed by @filmoneng

A Production by
@filmtribemedia
@filmoneng @kamostate @by.tolu @filmonestudios

#Starlomo #September25 #InCinemas

[Ajokeee 🤍 @Aheesha_x]

This framing is infuriating.

Postpartum psychosis is real. Healthcare failures can be real. None of that changes the fact that three helpless children were killed. They had no choice, no voice, no way to escape and no opportunity to ask anyone to save them.

THREE innocent children were murdered and somehow the conversation keeps finding a way to make the person who killed them the centre of sympathy.

You can acknowledge mental illness without sanitising what happened or pushing the actual victims into the background.

We can talk about postpartum psychosis. But please don’t make the three children disappear from their own story.

They were helpless. They didn’t ask to be born into her circumstances, and they certainly didn’t ask to die because of them.

And the fact that she may have been mentally ill does not magically make the children less dead. Compassion for her suffering should never require us to dilute the horror of what happened to those babies.

So yes, investigate how Lindsay was failed. But stop talking about her suffering as though it somehow eclipses the suffering inflicted on those three children.

She may have needed help. Those children needed protection. And they are the ones who paid for everything with their lives.

That distinction seems to be getting lost, and frankly, I find that disgusting.

[Aminat Ajibike Abubakar @4larwell]

@Aheesha_x May Allah perfect everything that concerns you! Cause how do we get here?

[Aminat Ajibike Abubakar @4larwell]

@Cyberhijabitech Word is blue, green is excel😂😂😂

[Roheemah..🦋 @Rheema01]

One day I will wake up, brush my teeth, take a bath, pack my bag, dress nicely, board a flight and go to umrah or hajj Insha
Allah🤲🤲

[Ayeesha @AyeshaLiq]

Come December, I will watch both movies as usual.
They will both make their money by God’s grace.

All this talk talk no really concern me 👩🏽‍🦯👩🏽‍🦯

[TOYIN ABRAHAM AJEYEMI @toyin_abraham1]

BESTIE in Cinemas from 16th of December #Bestie #bestiethemovie

Concept/directed by @toyin_abraham

Shot/edited by @dopeviewsonly @speedope

Hair by @addybeaut
Clothing by @addybeautclothing
Makeup set by @addybeautblush
Styled by @addysexy

[Dee_Dee❤️ @hant_qudeee]

I want to go for Umrah. I want to go for Hajj.
May we be amongst those called upon by Allah. Ameen

[Aminat Ajibike Abubakar @4larwell]

@aiishadahir Aamin🤲🏻

[Aminat Ajibike Abubakar @4larwell]

@savvy_ruqqy Alhamdulillah Robil Alameen!

[Aminat Ajibike Abubakar @4larwell]

@Aheesha_x It's just common sense fgs!

[TOYIN ABRAHAM AJEYEMI @toyin_abraham1]

Oops.

[Aminat Ajibike Abubakar @4larwell]

@esegbonaluis This is so sad!

[Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri @ronkecarew]

All they are telling us is build yourselves, And I actually endorse it.

Don't build someone else before building yourselves

You are an individual with life goals, Ambitions and visions, Build it, nurture it, respect it, give it a name , Let those who birth you just like your partner/husband was birthed have A Person to point at too.

Don't invest the energy ,vision, prayers and efforts of your youth into building someone else.

You are a being too, Be Known! Create , Have yours even whilst in the Marriage So you won't end up becoming a miserable , frustrated , entitled or angry person just because you feel you contributed more than you should have done .

Ibukun ni fun Omo odo to fi Ogbon se.

On this street, if you don't learn every day , no one can teach you again

X is a free Masterclass, take your lessons and grow and its never too late.

No Law says you cannot be Rich as a woman too by the way and even if Polygamy were to meet you, Madam let it meet you as a Rich, Focused, Established, Happy and Contented woman . That is your Cushion especially as a Muslim woman. Thats my own template.

I want to Be a very rich, fulfilled , empowered Woman in any situations life throws at Me. And So I shall insha Allah 🤲🤲🤲

[Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri @ronkecarew]

Allahumma inni a'udhu bika min al-
fagri wal-qillati wal-dhillati wa a'udhu
bika min an azlima aw uzlama.

O Allah, I seek refuge in You from poverty, scarcity, and humillation. And I seek refuge in You from
oppressing others or being oppressed.🤲🤲🤲

[Aminat Ajibike Abubakar @4larwell]

@Temi_labii @AweniOnibata My thought exactly!