Sometimes people avoid you because they know they treated you badly, but they donโt have the maturity to face what they did. Instead of apologising or taking accountability, they create distance and quietly remove themselves from your life because itโs easier than confronting their own behavior. Their silence doesnโt always mean they donโt care. Sometimes it means they know exactly what they did and donโt want to face it.
When people donโt consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. Thereโre actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
If someone takes advantage of you because youโre a nice person, donโt let that change you. Continue to be a good person. Itโs still good to be a good person even though itโs hard to believe with the way people can treat you sometimes.
always check your own attitude too. it's not always the world around you, sometimes you are the toxic person. understand that you make mistakes and can hurt people. understand that there are things you need to work on. apologise, unlearn, and relearn, that's growth