rara

i leave you in god’s care

[rara @4yrawrr]

convo so good we thanked each other for the chat because it was LIFE CHANGING

[rara @4yrawrr]

@hahszp and to specifically mention the “semi racy photos” - well, teen girls doing tiktok trend dances with their friends also have their videos saved.

it isn’t “semi racy” but oh look at that, looks like the problem actually lies in men being perverted. were they also asking for it?

[rara @4yrawrr]

@hahszp anyways just to add another example. there are definitely dudes who wank off to their crush’s “online yearbook photos”.

then should we just complete eliminate a woman’s online presence in spite of these creepos?

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@hahszp but ofc, as a woman, keep yourself safe. don’t post your school, home, location, don’t post anything you’re not okay with a family member or colleague seeing. however we don’t need to necessarily put restrictions as to what we should and shouldn’t post

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@hahszp it’s like asking a woman to stay at home all day & never go out at night because there might be “creeps” - sounds ridiculous, doesn’t it

[rara @4yrawrr]

@hahszp we live in a time where political figures, lawyers, a next door neighbour even can be subjected to being deep faked. if you keep trying to avoid and hide from creeps, it’s a miserable and restrictive life

[rara @4yrawrr]

@hahszp what’s important is to keep your identify private, yes there are limitations to set for your own safety (you need digital literacy) but at the end of the day, girl wants to post a cute selfie, girl has the rights to do so. whatever a fat fuck wants to do isn’t her control.

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@hahszp because those fat fuck creepos shouldn’t deserve to affect what i post, nor do i need to revolve my online activity around their disgusting acts

[rara @4yrawrr]

🫥

[rara @4yrawrr]

someone who sees hard work as survival will never fail in life

[rara @4yrawrr]

how you do anything is how you do everything

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dont see my friends for 6 months and they get a culture shock from my current life choices that’s how bad it is

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character development isn’t even a thing for me it’s a new character entirely every 6 months

[rara @4yrawrr]

this world is temporary so how can we expect people to be permanent?

[rara @4yrawrr]

brain do bad brain stuff why i cry myself to sleep brain think bad go bad place

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whatever trace that there’s left

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ah yes the existential dread once again

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hi

[rara @4yrawrr]

be selective or deal with defective