Your family can get much more out of charitable gifting than tax deductions.
Every gift you make is chance for your family to:
•express your values
•work together in a meaningful way
•make your own problems seem a little smaller
May your Family Declaration solidify a commitment to building a great thing on the earth:
A flourishing family.
And may it also prove to future generations that their ancestors loved them and were preparing for their arrival.
When a group of people set off to create something new and important together, they make a declaration of their intentions.
Those building a great family do the same.
A Family Declaration makes it clear:
• Who your family is
• What you're doing
• Why you'e doing it
3. Ratification: once the entire family approves, it is now time to sign your Declaration.
The ratification should be a joyful recognition that your family is doing something special.
Those signing their name are committing to take a significant step into the future together.
If your family has traditions, your work is to continue them so that your children have something to give their children & grandchildren.
If you do not have traditions, your work is create them. It's easy: simply start with what you already enjoy doing together.
Traditions and rituals help family members understand their place.
They also give a framework for a person to understand their roles and responsibilities.
Whether religious or cultural, the purpose is always the same: to create a sense of meaning and connection.
Here are 5 things you need to chart a new future for your family:
• Vision of wealth that's beyond mere money
• Alignment with 1-2 other family members
• Consistent times of rest together
• Family culture of learning
• Time
That's basically it.
Most of us could name stories like these that shaped our lives in significant ways.
They help us form an understanding of:
• who we are
• where we come from
• what we've overcome in the past
• what we're made of to take on the future
Make the effort to collect your stories.
Every family needs to know their differentness - what makes them unique every other family.
This is best accomplished through the family's stories.
As keepers of these stories, elders fill a crucial role and steward the family's most valuable assets.
The stories elders tell are worth their weight in gold:
• the family's origins
• their own childhood
• memories of relatives no longer living
• tales of past trials, heroic achievements, & valuable lessons
They fill a deep need - especially your family's younger generations.