One of the most important things you can do for someone in any relationship is allow them to express their feelings or hold space for them without taking it personally. It can be difficult to not add input or get defensive, but this creates a safe space to express openly.
Holding yourself accountable is great but do so healthy. Constantly monitoring yourself, not trusting that you can make good decisions & learn from mistakes made hinders you from truly living.
You end up punishing yourself over EVERY little thing & that’s not accountability.
virgo risings are definitely a “pretty placement” lowkey my fav rising.
virgo = craftsmanship, details, cleanliness
they always look well groomed, clear, symmetrical. never have to do too much with an outfit or style choices because it’ll always look and feel purposeful.
no bc when i learned that your emotional brain can literally impair & override the part of your brain that controls rational thought, it completely shifted how i respond to others emotions & mine. at that point of emotional intensity, logic won’t make sense. all you can do is be