@wellnessunday I know this is gonna sound silly, but the logical next step is to apply what you learned (skills, information, anything) by creating something
@sam_kritch I feel this is the root of it. While lateness may be indicative of not really wanting to go/be social, both myself and many of my close friends have been late, despite really wanting to be there & to be on time. It was due to having a busy, poorly planned, unrealistic schedule
@helencftroy Is it that they're lonely, or just lacked the initiative to cross the coworkers --> friends border? bc ppl are def more lonely now, but I feel like part of that is because they don't have overlap in their social spheres and tend to isolate themselves to one identity
@filet_o_calvin Not that hard, but at the time it was: Brave New World by Aldous Huxley -- I read it in the 6th grade and it shaped so much of how I think of the world today
@sam_kritch I'd resigned to live the rest of my life unmarried and in solely platonic relationships but then I met an incredible guy and can't see myself ever wanting to be with anyone else... how do I get past this? We're still happily together but I'm so very afraid something will happen
@oh_tuntun Okay why does this happen?? I've heard so many conflicting theories like the blood leaves your brain to go to your stomach to help digest your food but idk what to believe...
@alecttrona I feel like, especially in situations like these, there's two distinct groups of people: those who define nonchalant as calm, and those who define it as uncaring. One of these will get you love, the other will not.
@hopemachines Oh wow I had no idea! I hope it doesn't come across as insensitive when I ask this but is that why you picked her? She is absolutely gorg btw
I sent a tiktok to my slightly toxic ex bsf I hadn't spoken to in almost a year. She responded friendly, and made a joke, then I hearted her message, and that was that. I did not want to engage in conversation, just to share an old memory, and she understood that easily.
@catfrog2000 Despite the word having evolved to mean trendy/fashionable, to be chic is to unapologetically and effortlessly embrace style. By having your own style/likes that don't follow mainstream or are "chic", you are embodying the "chic" aesthetic at its root. Just a thought
Just replied to like 30 tweets. Didn't get a single courtesy like. Am I fat and chopped like wtf is going on how do I make friends why is this HARDER on twitter than it is irl.