Another day to forge ahead towards your purpose. Do not quit simply because it is hard. Hard does not mean impossible. Slow does not mean failure. A setback does not mean the journey is over. And uncertainty does not mean you should stop believing.
Give yourself time to grow at your own pace. Stop comparing your journey with someone else's. You may not be where you want to be yet, but that does not mean you are going nowhere.
Remember; some progress happens quietly. Some victories take time. Some dreams require years of preparation before they become reality.
In this thread I wrote which I was dragged for earlier this year, this is why I boldly said we're not partners.
When your wife refers to you as a partner, she now sees you as an equal.
If only I have to pay bride price, what exactly makes us partners?
If I'm the main provider, what exactly makes us partners?
If you're my responsibility and I'm supposed to protect you, what exactly makes us partners?
Partners are people who benefit equally. Not an institution where men are broke shame and told they don't deserve love and after I hustle for decades to be financially stable and marry a woman, she'll call herself my partner.
We're not partners.
You're my subordinate.
I'm not your mate.
I'M YOUR KING!
Nigerian men will spend millions on bride price and marriage lists to marry prostitutes who they met on the streets and paid for sex.
Then go ahead to pay her in marriage to cook him the food he wants while occasionally paying for sex when his wife tells him she's not in the mood.
Nigerian men too useless.
I'm sure your mother billed your father constantly while they were dating, so what exactly changed?
Why didn't that motivate your father to hustle harder or become a billionaire in the process?
So you can't bill your woman constantly so it motivates her to be successful?
Continue to dey mumu yourself online for women validation.
Sleep with multiple non virgins, increase their borehole, learn one or two sex tip from them, then when I'm ready to settle down, i go for an 18 years old virgin with no frontal lobe.
The game is the game.
People wey wan make i go jail many for this app.
I used to think it was mostly women but now I know men are even in the majority.
At the end of the day, na man dey do man.
This is why I will always say;
Nigerian men too mumu.
Welcome to a new month, another opportunity to rewrite your story, rebuild your confidence, and pursue everything your heart has been working towards.
As you open your eyes to this new morning, remind yourself that you have been given another chance to become better, think better, work harder, and move closer to the life you desire.
This October, do not forget to take care of yourself while pursuing your ambitions. You are not a machine, and your value is not measured only by how much you produce. Rest when you need to recover. Give yourself room to breathe when responsibilities become overwhelming. Celebrate meaningful progress, even when it seems small. Learn to distinguish between productive effort and exhausting yourself without a clear purpose.
You can be ambitious without being cruel to yourself. You can be disciplined without denying yourself rest. You can be determined while still recognizing that you are human.
Happy New Month!