See my bro as someone who has lived that life and regretted it I’ll tell you something nobody will tell you. Learning how to love when you’re financially down is one of the best decisions you can make in your life especially if you’re with someone you see as long term cause love goes beyond your ability to provide.
It’s generally how you speak to her, listen to her, how you react to stuff, your attitude towards her, how well you keep your emotions in check. Your change in reaction when you’re down is as a result of you tying your ability to love as your ability to provide and you have to unlearn that.
I get It’s not always easy going from spending on her to not being able to and they don’t understand that your change in reactions isn’t because you’re angry at them but rather you’re angry you can’t do those things anymore. It’s best to start now to decentralize your ability to love as your ability to provide cause it’ll be a huge problem when you get married.
I’ll always say it if a woman leaves you cause you can’t do the things you used to cause of finances then let her go but let your attitude towards her during that period not be the reason she leaves you.
I like women who like me, want to be with me, call me, text me, and take me out. All that nonchalant, broke, wicked, and ‘main character’ aesthetic doesn’t move me.
I will never understand the point of this thought-process. You clearly weren't attracted to this man and you wouldn't be happy if you were currently married to him, so why do you care how his life is playing out?