@balisongbastard@wobbledawg a sneed is someone is a soy redditor about their transness. "skirt goes spinny", thigh highs, severe lack of cynicism regarding transness, r/egg_irl, gets their entire idea of femininity from anime memes. they're mostly interchangeable though because basically none of them pass
@rep_princess i have a descriptive view of gender so i see myself as male because that's what i functionally am in society. i could be female if i started going out as one (and minimally passed) but for the time being im effectively just a guy
@Th3wrrd3n@taxidermysnail_ QRTs keep telling you that you dont understand the is/ought distinction and you keep arguing with them without knowing what it is. look shit up!!! look up the things you dont know!!!!!!!!!! oh my god!!!!!!!!
@BlakkBile yeah my last therapist started talking weird shit abt the oedipus cut or something and would be extremely pedantic about my use of the words "subconscious" and "unconscious" like fuck you im literally sobbing abt smth serious and u interrupt me w these epic Umm Acshually's
@photosynfetic@ooi43z no, im saying that i only care about passing as a woman. if i dont pass then someones choice to gender me female is just politeness; if i pass and someone chooses to misgender me after finding out im trans its just disrespect. neither mean anything for my goals transitioning
@wynterbe@ooi43z ran out of characters in my original reply to add the nuance but obviously i would care if someone is disrespecting me, i mean that i dont care in terms of my self image. if i passed and someone HAD to be told that im trans then their choice to misgender me is just their politics