You kno what's super attractive to me? When a man CALMLY talks to you in times of disagreement. EVEN inspite of their frustration in the moment. Not being a hot dead and talking crazy, no character assassination.... just calmly & rationally responding with patience & diligence.
No sad shit but adulthood is so lonely. You can be a great friend to everybody but when you down and out and going through things who there for you? Truly an eye opening experience but noted.