There are men so damaged from childhood that they will never be happy in any relationship. He’ll tell you, “Don’t give up on me,” then sabotage it because he hates that you love him. He resents you for not leaving him, even though he’s the one who begged you to stay!
He’s Not The One For You: Signs That He’s Wasting Your Time
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Forgiving a man is a choice…
BUT when that man convinces you that you’re the reason he acts the way he does, or says you can’t do better than him, that's manipulation
Don’t blame yourself for the evil done to you. Learn from it…
A weak man will control you and call it love. Put you down, just so he can pick you back up like he’s the hero. Use any attempt to walk away as proof that you never cared in the first place.
None of that is romantic.
It’s cancerous!
If your intuition is screaming that a relationship isn’t working and you know you can upgrade and be happier than why wouldn’t you act on it? This isn’t 1956. No one has to settle or “take one for the team”
Self-love means you don’t suffer in some mediocre role just because Pick Me’s and Misogynists see “struggle” as a woman’s job...
"Call Her Daddy" host Alex Cooper & actress Sophia Bush: if a woman is questioning whether she can do better than her current husband, "the answer is always yes."
"This idea that it's too late or you're too old, or who are you to want more, that's patriarchy. That is crazy."
“Sorry” means nothing when it rolls off the tongue of someone who keeps embarrassing you, disrespecting you, and proving you’re an afterthought.
“Maybe this is how love is” NO!
Love isn’t a high followed by a low. It isn’t constant arguing. It doesn’t involve crying over someone who refuses to do better. Stop misdiagnosing pain with love because you’re comfortable.
Mistakes aren’t the problem, the lack of accountability is. Anyone who turns a situation THEY did back around on you isn’t reacting out of anger they’re manipulating out of practice.
This is who they are, they’ve done it before and you’re the latest victim. Don’t see as a red flag, see it as proof that you need to walk away!
Falling in love is beautiful, but love with NO standards will have you crying in a parked car over a man whose mattress is on the floor. OR going in your purse to prop up a boy who will never grow into a man. https://t.co/9e9yFRFlQx
Falling in love is beautiful, but love with NO standards will have you crying in a parked car over a man whose mattress is on the floor. OR going in your purse to prop up a boy who will never grow into a man. https://t.co/9e9yFRFlQx
Basicas ask other women, “Where did you buy that dress?” or “What makeup products do you use?” but the real question is: Why are you trying to emulate HER instead of embracing UNIQUENESS?
You are pretty, you are worthy, and you are wanted! https://t.co/L9zSBEgG8L
Other women have been in your shoes, caught up in the dating stage excitement… then ended up hurt because they dropped their guard and let the Lover Girl side win out over the common sense side.
NEVER want someone so bad that trust is given without being fully earned!
“He seems nice.” So what?
The older you get the less time you have to waste on horny guys who play roles. Men have agendas that come in LAYERS. Never confuse initial attention with his long term goal… you’re not soulmates it’s strategy.
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You know he’s lying so why are you trying to convince yourself he isn’t? You don’t need more evidence. You don’t need to catch him in more lies. There is no need to overthink the obvious! STOP avoiding the fact that you’re dealing with a trash person! https://t.co/yqtRPQzWoK