I don’t think I want to get to know any girl or female at this point. The urge , the energy, the time, the finance , none of the above is there for me. Rn, it’s just me , Allah and work
@modeus778@byakuya_88 Watched 3 episodes then I stopped. They moved too fast I think. They jumbled it together and it became a mess. It's the kind of series that won't make much sense until they start showing flashback episodes to breakdown what happened in previously aired episodes.
@Abdulganiyinka Simple as that. It’s just game 5 or so and we’ve seen quite a number of people denied entry. It doesn’t make sense. The last WC had lgbtq entry allowed and open alcohol consumption allowed despite being against the rules of the host country, that’s the sacrifice made by the host
2021: Leave Request Rejected
2022: Leave Request Rejected
2023: Leave Request Rejected
2024: Leave Request Rejected
2025: Leave Request Rejected
2026:
Employee: “Kindly accept my resignation.”
Boss: “But we doubled your salary! Why are you leaving?”
Employee: "I've received a new job offer with great paid leave benefits, WFH option and there's also a guaranteed annual paid leave offered without manager's approval"
48 hours later… ↓
I refuse to believe the lines are blurry. It’s very easy to spot them. All that’s needed is to ignore the fancy gifts and pay attention to what he actually does for a living. The main problem is bulk of females don’t even know or care about what their partner does for a living
In Lagos mostly, some yahoo boys are now masquerading as tech guys to attract and marry corporate ladies.
The lines are getting blurred. How do you even tell the difference these days?
I have seen many women do this in real life, and I keep wondering how they comfortably call their husbands their "partners."
A partner, by definition, is someone who shares the burden with you. Someone who helps carry the weight when it becomes too heavy. How then can you watch the person you claim is your life partner struggle under the pressure of provision and feel no responsibility to assist?
What confuses me is that many of these same women had no problem accepting their husband's support when he was thriving. They happily enjoyed the sacrifices, the comfort, and the security he provided. Yet when circumstances change, helping him suddenly becomes "spoiling" him.
How is it spoiling someone to stand by them during a difficult season?
If your husband loses his job, faces a setback, or goes through financial hardship, your first instinct should not be to protect your resources from him. It should be to protect him from facing that burden alone.
The true test of partnership is not how you behave when everything is abundant. It is how you show up when life becomes difficult.
Because if you can only appreciate your husband when he is providing, then perhaps what you loved was not the man himself, but the benefits that came with him.
I understand that this may be particularly difficult for Muslim women, especially given that Islam permits a man to have more than one wife. Those feelings are real, and many women struggle with them.
However, if you willingly choose to remain in the marriage and continue to be his wife, then your role as defined within the limits of Islamic teachings includes caring for your husband and your children, just as his role includes caring for and providing for his family.
No one is asking a wife to inherit all of her husband's responsibilities or become the sole provider. That would be unfair and unreasonable. But there is a significant difference between carrying the entire burden and offering support during a difficult season.
Marriage is not a competition over who owes what. It is a relationship built on mercy, compassion, and cooperation. When one spouse is struggling, the other should naturally feel inclined to help where they can.
Supporting your husband when he falls on hard times is not "spoiling" him. It is standing by the person you promised to share life with. The same way a good husband does not abandon his wife when she is unable to fulfill every role expected of her, a good wife should not reduce her husband to a paycheck.
Partnership does not mean carrying all the weight. It means never being comfortable watching the other person collapse under it.
Why Christians are obsessed with Muslim women covering their bodies? You have your own women whose bodies everyone can see, and Muslims don’t have a problem with that. So why do you have a problem with Muslim women choosing to cover themselves? Are you insane? Is all the nakedness you’ve already seen not enough for you?
@Abdulganiyinka@rraahhmmaattt It may look like it right now but on this app, there will be times you’d need help( doesn’t have to be financial) , it’s the reputation you’ve built that will open those doors. So it’s a short term gain and long term loss for her imo. Reputation over peanuts from clout any day