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今天我在荷兰遇到一个特别有意思的人。我问他，你不想让德国变得更好吗？他说，不重要
今晚我和我的男朋友从荷兰回德国亚琛的路上遇到了我这一辈子第一次这么严重的种族歧视，即使我已经遇到很多次了。我遇到欧洲最肆无忌惮的群体，是的，是青少年。
上了350公交车以后，我和我男朋友分享耳机，正在听泰勒斯威夫特的歌，the man. 突然我的后脑勺遭到了一个重击，很明显有什么东西砸到我头了。我很惊讶，立刻回头看，我看到一个绿衣服白男满脸尴尬的试图捡东西。我以为是他有什么东西掉了，随着车的惯性丢到我的头上。我非常奇怪，我觉得如果他把东西掉到我头上了，至少他应该说一声抱歉，但是他没有，他只是一直在说没事儿的、没事儿的。
我觉得他这样很不礼貌，所以我又一次想要回头看他。但是黄仁勋说，AI无法取代人类，可能就是因为，人有直觉。有时候当你意识到不对劲的时候，你要相信自己的直觉。因为就在我回头那一瞬间我看到了真正的行凶者，在我和她对视上的那一瞬间，我知道就是她。
好吧，其实我没有那么确定。我男朋友说，是那个男的吗？我说，我不确定。后面还有一个女生，但我感觉不是她。所以我转过头去，我问她，是他故意砸我吗？ 可能她英语不好吧，就在这一刻，她开始了。
她大声冲我骂了一些荷兰语。这个时候我才注意到还有另一个女生，另一个砸我的人，一个深色皮肤的女孩，她躲起来、趴在椅子上以便让我看不到。
我坐回身。紧接着他们就又扔东西到我身上。我非常感谢我的男朋友立刻就站出来帮我问他们，你们为什么要这样做？他们立刻开始拍摄，并且辱骂、嘲笑、恐吓我们。他们开始疯狂辱骂扔了好多零碎的东西，我们也开始录像。这个白女是一个惯犯，她非常清楚自己应该怎么做，她会用摄像头开闪光灯放在自己的脸边，以便自己不会被拍到。相比之下，另一位深肤色的就要显得稚嫩多了，她经验不足，只会捂着自己的脸，看来她也知道自己是错的。看来白女并没有告诉她的同伙，要怎么做一个合格的典型的常规的种族歧视者。这个过程持续了1分钟不到，立刻就有一个穿黑衣服的男生上来阻止我们，他不在乎眼前发生什么，他上来的第一句话就是告诉我，你们太吵了，你们要停下来。
我问，为什么不让她们停下来？她们攻击我们并且辱骂我们。她们先开始的。他毫无逻辑地说了一些话，大概就是不管他们做了什么那又如何，她们是孩子。
啊，多么充满希望的一个词。想必每一个在欧洲、在澳洲、在美国，被青少年骚扰过的人们，都明白在这场对抗中，孩子这个词的分量。
司机让我们都停下。我们都坐下了，但是很快她们又开始了。我们又被骚扰了很久，辱骂、攻击。这个过程我已经不想再回忆了，但是我们已经报警，并且警察承诺会取得公交车上的摄像纪录。
我们从一个非常善良，多次出言帮助我们的大叔那里取得了他的联系方式，他也答应我们愿意作为证人。
还有一位大叔，他主动远离了战场，他下车前，他也主动地说他很遗憾我们遇到这样的事情，他同情我们。可能是为了让我们好受一点吧，所以他说，或许那两个女生不是在针对我们，他们就是这样大范围的骚扰所有人。
非常遗憾的是，我不认可这位善良的先生说的话，因为这个白女显然是个惯犯，她非常清楚地知道怎么用假动作来恐吓别人，她会不停地假装要继续打我，做出向前冲刺的动作。就像恐怖片《痴迷》里Nikki那样。 当我做出躲闪的动作后，她会非常得意的大笑。 我实在是无法理解了，我忍不住问她们，你们为什么要这样？你们这样对我们，是因为你爸妈也是这样对你们的吗？他们变得非常愤怒。
一直到下车，他们都一直在语言攻击，和扔东西砸我们。她们在Margraten下车的时候，她拿更重的东西，拿口红和发夹开始砸我。 是的，还是我，不是我的男朋友。 我忍不住的想到the man的歌词， if I was a man.
欧洲是世界范围内女权做得很好的地方， 大家总是在说中国没有女权。但是我想告诉大家，如果这个地方真的有女权，首先人们会尊重女性，而不是看着女性弱小就可以选择性的欺负她。在两个她们认为是逆来顺受的中国人中，她们选择了看上去更好欺负的那个。女权最起码的原则是，女性应该感受到最起码的安全。很遗憾的是，女人独自在这里行走是不安全的。我在这里我不想展开了，相信在欧洲生活过的人都知道我在说什么。 我无法想象今天如果没有我男朋友，我会遇到什么。
我们录像了，但是由于对方是未成年人，所以我们无法将这些视频上传到社交媒体上，我们的视频里有很明确的不停地有其他荷兰男性过来跟我们说，不管他们做了什么，他们都只是孩子。我为我的这句话负法律责任。
我询问一个坐到我后面的中年男性，我问他愿不愿意做我的证人，他说他不愿意，他说不管他们做了什么，你只要是录像你就错了，因为他们是未成年。
我们已经报警了，他们承诺会拿到大巴车上的录像。但是在我内心深处我知道这件事情是不会有结果的，我当时对他们喊，你们是racist吗？视频里他们笑了，他们不在乎。我的首页有整个事件的发展经过，如果你还有时间，还感兴趣，你可以去看。
@Bluesky_0901 @Antonio_nope 你把我逗死了，你要我说多少遍，被拦住了被拦住了。所有人都在对我们大喊，他们只是个孩子。还巨婴思维了，法治国家我报警，我还变巨婴思维了？你特别典型的中国人啊，我很害怕，怕你下辈子还是中国人。只有中国人才会觉得报警，不能解决问题
Bluesky小老弟着急了。他像一个无能的丈夫一样，像一个典型的底层老中人一样，开启了拉黑😭😭😭我很想把视频发给你，但是很可惜，对方是未成年，所以我们只能发给警察，如果我给你看了，你也会被要求当作证人传话的，我这都是为了保护你呀，你怎么就不懂我的苦心呢？你看说到底还是中国人保护中国人吧，奖励你下辈子还当中国人
其实你知道你自己说错了，但是你还是想要犟。真的很想问问你到底怎么样才能像你说的不较劲呢？你最开始，说的是不要跟小孩较劲，你说所以没有有必要报警。我们无法回手，而且我们尝试要去语言阻止他，都会被其他荷兰人拦下来。我们就留下报警这一条路了，你还要说较劲，我真想问问你会怎么做？周围一群人没有一个人站在我们这一边，我们每次站起来的时候，他们都拦住我们。你怎么制止？离着三四排呢。你也砸她？你也当着大巴车摄像头的面，当着一群证人的面，你就狂砸一个未成年？你怎么样才是既符合你说的不窝囊还不较劲呢？你打个样。
那可不是吗？我们只要一站起来，就有一堆荷兰人上来劝阻我们，说他们是孩子，他们是孩子。我们都还没要动手呢，就只是站起来跟他们对着录像，我们都没有用任何一个辱骂性的词汇。就只是在问她俩，让她俩stop doing that，让道歉，这群荷兰人就受不了。他们能忍受看我们被两个racist反复的扔东西砸头一个小时
@Ventwindelle 这一套难道不是白人先开始流行的吗？见到顾客就喊Honey ，sweetie，darling 。现在他们还这样啊。
【6】Thank you to my boyfriend. Thank you to that gentleman who spoke up to try to stop things from escalating further, and who helped explain what happened to others.
Lastly, I also want to thank Elon Musk for adding the instant translation feature on X. I want the world to know what my boyfriend and I went through tonight. I hope everyone who reads this post can draw some strength from it.
Today I met an especially “interesting” person in the Netherlands. I asked him, don’t you want Germany to be a better place? He said, doesn’t matter.
Tonight, on the way back from Maastricht in the Netherlands to Aachen in Germany, my boyfriend and I experienced the most severe racial discrimination I’ve encountered in my entire life — and that’s saying something, since I’ve already been through it many times. I ran into the most unrestrained, most reckless group in all of Europe. Yes — teenagers.
After we got on the 350 bus, my boyfriend and I were sharing AirPods, listening to Taylor Swift’s “The Man.” Suddenly I felt a hard blow to the back of my head — something had clearly hit me. Startled, I turned around immediately, and I saw a white man in a green shirt, looking embarrassed, trying to pick something up. I thought maybe something of his had fallen and the momentum of the bus had sent it flying into my head.
But I found it strange — I thought if something of his had hit my head, at the very least he should say sorry. But he didn’t. He just kept saying，like it’s fine, it’s nothing, something like that.
I thought this was rude, so I turned to look at him again. But Jensen Huang once said AI can’t replace humans, and maybe that’s because humans have intuition. Sometimes, when something feels off, you have to trust your gut. Because the instant I turned around, I saw the real culprit. The moment our eyes met, I knew — it was her.
Okay, honestly, I wasn’t that certain. My boyfriend asked, was it that guy? I said, I’m not sure. There was another girl behind us too, but I didn’t feel it was her. So I turned around and asked her, did he do that on purpose? Maybe her English wasn’t good, but right at that moment, she started.
She shouted something at me in Dutch. It was only then that I noticed there was another girl — another one of the people who’d thrown something at me — someone with dark skin, who was hiding, hunched down over her seat so I couldn’t see her.
I turned back around. Right away, they threw more things at me. I’m so grateful that my boyfriend immediately stood up for me and asked them, why are you doing this?
They immediately started filming us, while cursing, mocking, and intimidating us. They kept hurling abuse and throwing all kinds of little objects at us, so we started filming too.
This white girl was clearly a repeat offender — she knew exactly what she was doing. She held her phone up with the flash on right beside her own face, so she wouldn’t be caught on camera herself. The darker-skinned girl, by comparison, seemed much less experienced — she just covered her face with her that typical ‘white girl’ nails
, which suggested she at least knew she was in the wrong.
It seemed the white girl hadn’t briefed her partner on how to be a proper, textbook, run-of-the-mill racist. This whole thing had gone on for less than a minute when a guy in a black shirt came over to stop us. He didn’t care what was actually happening — the first thing out of his mouth was telling us we were too loud and we needed to stop.
I asked, why not tell them to stop? They attacked us and cursed at us. They started it. He said something completely illogical — basically, whatever they did doesn’t matter, they’re just kids. Ah, what a hopeful little word. Surely anyone who has ever been harassed by teenagers in Europe, in Australia, in America, knows exactly how much weight that word “kids” carries.
The driver came out and told everyone to stop. We all sat back down, but very soon they started again. We were harassed for a long time after that — I don’t even want to relive that part anymore. But we’ve called the police, and they’ve promised to obtain the bus’s camera footage.
【5】Last Christmas, when I went back to China for the holidays, I was in a friend’s car. They took me out to a mall. After we parked, they left a lot of stuff in the car — food, their coats, their bags. Instinctively, I said, aren’t you going to take your things? They had no idea what I meant. Then it hit me — this isn’t Europe. I explained to them that in Europe, after you park, if you leave things visible in the car, it might get broken into.
My friend asked a genuinely, achingly naive question: why would that happen? Are there a lot of poor people there? I remember feeling this strange mix of helplessness, dark amusement, and deep sorrow.
I told them, no, that’s not it — China has plenty of poor people too, more than enough. Our poor people might have it even worse than some of the homeless people here in Europe. The real reason is: nobody cares unless they become the victims.
Poverty might be one trigger for crime in some places, but poverty isn’t what makes crime persist. What actually makes crime persist is the absence of consequences.
The real reason is that nobody enforces anything. Politicians don’t act, so the laws don’t act either, so even if there are police officers with a genuine sense of justice, their hands are tied. Those officers with real integrity have long since had their sense of fairness and justice worn down by the same dull, bureaucratic routine, day after day.
Again — I firmly believe she’s bullied plenty of people before, and faced no consequences at all. And again, to anyone from an ethnic minority who has ever been hurt by her and her circle — I offer you my deepest sympathy.
【4】I’ve already reported this to the police, though honestly, deep down I know I’m never going to get an apology from them. But I want to tell anyone reading this post — if you live near this city, and you ever run into those two, or into discrimination in general, I hope you have friends by your side, and I hope you fight back bravely. Because it’s obvious this white girl thoroughly enjoyed the whole thing.
She’s definitely a repeat offender — she clearly knows exactly how to humiliate people, how to intimidate them, and she gets enjoyment out of watching others feel scared and helpless. So I firmly believe she’s bullied plenty of people before this, and never faced a single consequence.
To anyone from an ethnic minority who has been hurt by her and her circle before — I offer you my deepest sympathy.
【3】He went on and on. My boyfriend kept his patience and stayed polite. But I was truly sick of that kind of face people put on — so fake, so sanctimonious. I was really done with it. It’s exactly this kind of person who’s making Europe worse and worse, the kind who, in ways nobody even notices, ends up destroying the whole of Europe from the inside. I don’t know what he said to the guy in the black shirt from earlier. At first, the guy in the black shirt confronted us with a smirking, jokey attitude. But after he talked to the green-shirt man for a while, the black-shirt guy became visibly furious, glaring at us with real hostility. Not only that — later, several of his friends got on the bus too, and one after another they came over to talk to us, telling us to delete the video. I felt like my personal safety was seriously at risk. I couldn’t believe how a man who originally seemed to just think we shouldn’t be arguing with the girls could be egged on by others into becoming someone dangerous enough to potentially bring a whole group to intimidate other people.
Honestly, I think that man in the green shirt was the most terrifying person of all. If the first two people represented pure malice and stupidity, then this white man in the green shirt was the truly quintessential European white man. Men like him hide in the background — not only do they refuse to support the victims, they actually go looking for any possible angle, any tiny detail, to attack you with, to argue that you weren’t a perfect enough victim. I imagine a lot of people have heard some version of the line: “you’re the one who really hurt the feelings of people attacking you.”
He said a lot about how we needed to learn to keep the peace, insisting that we were the ones escalating the situation.
Stop pretending! You are not a philosopher.
All you’re really trying to tell us is that we used to be Chinese people who just quietly endured everything, and that we should keep quietly enduring it forever — that no matter what Europeans do to us, we should never fight back.
Of course he wants the world to get better — but only his world, the one that belongs to him. He genuinely doesn’t care whether anyone else lives or dies. Even if other people’s fates would eventually come back to affect his own life, to destroy his own world, he still chooses to look away.
The whole way back to Aachen, all the way to the police station, and even after we left the police station, my boyfriend said “I’m sorry” to me over and over. He also said “thank you” to me over and over. He was sorry he couldn’t protect me, and grateful for my courage.
I kept telling him, you don’t need to apologize, this isn’t your fault. I kept thanking him too. I told him, without you, I don’t know what would have happened to me tonight.
Since coming to Germany, I’ve traveled to a lot of places. When I traveled alone, I ran into a lot of racial discrimination — but I never experienced it when I was with my boyfriend. This was the first time since we’ve been together that something this intense has happened.
【2】There was a very kind man who spoke up for us several times, and we got his contact information — he agreed to be a witness for us.
There was also another man who chose to distance himself from the whole situation. Before he got off the bus, he did say, unprompted, that he was sorry we had to go through this, and that he sympathized with us. Maybe to make us feel a little better, he added that perhaps those two girls weren’t targeting us specifically — that they just harass everyone indiscriminately.
Unfortunately, I don’t agree with what that kind gentleman said, because this white girl was clearly a repeat offender. She clearly knew exactly how to use fake movements to intimidate people — she kept pretending she was about to hit me again, lunging forward, just like Nikki in Obsession. Every time I flinched away, she’d laugh triumphantly. I genuinely couldn’t understand it anymore, so I couldn’t help but ask them: is this how your parents treated you? Is that why you’re treating us this way? They got extremely angry.
Right up until they got off, they kept up the verbal attacks and kept throwing things at me. When they got off at Margraten, they grabbed heavier things — a lipstick, a hair clip — and threw them at me. Yes, still me, not my boyfriend. I couldn’t help thinking of that line from “The Man” — if I was a man. Europe is supposedly one of the best places in the world for women’s rights. People are always saying China has no feminism. But I want to tell everyone: if this place really had women’s rights, people would respect women first, instead of singling out the one who looks weaker to bully.
Between the two of us — two Chinese people they assumed would just take it — they chose the one who looked easier to pick on. The most basic principle of feminism is that women should be able to feel at least a minimum sense of safety.
Sadly, a woman walking alone here is not safe. I don’t want to go further into this — anyone who has lived in Europe knows exactly what I mean. I can’t imagine what would have happened to me tonight without my boyfriend.
A whole bus full of people — including several people from ethnic minorities themselves — and not a single one of them stepped in to actually do something to stop those two people. And yes, I don’t want to call them “girls” anymore. I am a person, they are people too, and we should be equal — not treated differently just because I look different from them.
After getting the first kind man‘s contact information, I went on my own to ask the man in the green shirt — I asked if he’d be willing to be our witness, since he was sitting right behind me and clearly saw them throw things at me. He said no. I asked, may I ask why? He said, no matter what, filming them was already something I did wrong.
I didn’t quite understand — I said, didn’t they start it? They cursed at me first, filmed me first, mocked me first. They enjoyed watching me be scared and humiliated.
He said a bunch of hollow, hypocritical things — that no matter what they did, my life was still my own, and that I needed to make peace with it. I completely didn’t understand. I said, don’t you want Germany to be a better place? He said, doesn’t matter. Later he got off while we were still in the Netherlands — so I guess that confirms it, the Dutch really don’t care whether Germans are doing okay.
I could understand him not wanting to get involved in something like this.
But what I didn’t expect was that he started lecturing us.
He started reciting poetry, showing us a drawing he’d made — he’d drawn a person with a hideous, twisted face. He read us a poem, and then translated it into English for us — the gist of it was, no matter what other people do, you just live your own life.
【3】他说了很多教育我们要学会和平的话。大概就是说，他认为我们升级了事态。
不要再装了！你不是一个哲学家，你只是想要告诉我们，我们曾经是逆来顺受的中国人，我们应该永远逆来顺受下去，无论欧洲人对我们做了什么，我们都不应该回击。
他当然希望这个世界会变得更好，但是是对他而言的他的世界。他根本不在乎其他人的死活。即使其他人的死活，最终会影响他的生活、摧毁他的世界，他也选择视而不见。
从我们回到亚琛，一路去警察局的路上，包括从警察局出来以后。我的男朋友跟我说了无数声，对不起。他也对我说了无数声，谢谢。他很抱歉他不能保护我，也谢谢我的勇敢。我一直跟他说不用道歉，这不是你的错。我也一直跟他说谢谢。我说如果没有你，我不知道今天晚上我会遇到什么。
我从来到德国以后旅游了很多地方，我一个人旅游的过程中，我遇到过很多的种族歧视，但我和我男朋友在一起的时候我没有遇到过了。这是我和他在一起以后遇到的第一次，如此激烈。
我已经报过警了，但是其实我心里清楚，我不可能会得到他们的道歉。但是我想告诉任何看完这个帖子的人，如果你们住在这个城市附近，当你们遇到她们，或者遇到歧视的时候，我祝愿你们身边有你的朋友陪伴，我祝愿你们有勇敢的反击。
因为很显然这个白女非常享受这个过程，她是一个惯犯，她非常知道要怎么样折辱别人、恐吓别人，享受别人的狼狈和痛苦。因此我非常相信，她已经欺负过很多人了，并且没有任何的后果。
对于任何受到过她和她的姐妹们的伤害的少数族裔们，我向你们表达最深切的同情。
去年圣诞节的时候我回中国度假，我坐在朋友的车上。他们带我去商场玩。到了商场停完车之后，他们在车里还留了很多东西，包括食物、自己的外套，还有包。我下意识说，你们东西不拿吗？他们不明白我在说什么。我反应过来了，这里不是欧洲。我给他们解释说，在欧洲，停车以后，如果车里有放一些物品的话，那么可能会被砸车。我朋友发出了一个，非常非常天真的一个疑问，为什么呀？是不是有很多穷人呀？我当时感到一种无力、哭笑不得，和一种非常深切的遗憾。我说不是的，中国有太多太多的穷人了。我们的穷人，可能会比欧洲这边的一些homeless过得还惨。真正的原因是，没人管。
贫穷或许在某些地方是犯罪的诱因之一，但是贫穷不是导致持续犯罪的原因，真正导致持续犯罪的原因，是没有后果。真正的原因是没有人管。政客不管，所以法律也不管，所以即使有非常正义的警察，也管不了。这些正义的警察早在日复一日的无聊的教条中，被磨去了公平和正义的品质。
再一次，我非常相信，她已经欺负过很多人了，并且没有任何的后果。再一次，对于任何受到过她和她的姐妹们的伤害的少数族裔们，我向你们表达最深切的同情。
谢谢我的男朋友。谢谢那位出声试图阻止事态继续恶化的大叔，帮我们和别人解释事情的过程。
今天我在荷兰遇到一个特别有意思的人。我问他，你不想让德国变得更好吗？他说，不重要
今晚我和我的男朋友从荷兰回德国亚琛的路上遇到了我这一辈子第一次这么严重的种族歧视，即使我已经遇到很多次了。我遇到欧洲最肆无忌惮的群体，是的，是青少年。
上了350公交车以后，我和我男朋友分享耳机，正在听泰勒斯威夫特的歌，the man. 突然我的后脑勺遭到了一个重击，很明显有什么东西砸到我头了。我很惊讶，立刻回头看，我看到一个绿衣服白男满脸尴尬的试图捡东西。我以为是他有什么东西掉了，随着车的惯性丢到我的头上。我非常奇怪，我觉得如果他把东西掉到我头上了，至少他应该说一声抱歉，但是他没有，他只是一直在说没事儿的、没事儿的。
我觉得他这样很不礼貌，所以我又一次想要回头看他。但是黄仁勋说，AI无法取代人类，可能就是因为，人有直觉。有时候当你意识到不对劲的时候，你要相信自己的直觉。因为就在我回头那一瞬间我看到了真正的行凶者，在我和她对视上的那一瞬间，我知道就是她。
好吧，其实我没有那么确定。我男朋友说，是那个男的吗？我说，我不确定。后面还有一个女生，但我感觉不是她。所以我转过头去，我问她，是他故意砸我吗？ 可能她英语不好吧，就在这一刻，她开始了。
她大声冲我骂了一些荷兰语。这个时候我才注意到还有另一个女生，另一个砸我的人，一个深色皮肤的女孩，她躲起来、趴在椅子上以便让我看不到。
我坐回身。紧接着他们就又扔东西到我身上。我非常感谢我的男朋友立刻就站出来帮我问他们，你们为什么要这样做？他们立刻开始拍摄，并且辱骂、嘲笑、恐吓我们。他们开始疯狂辱骂扔了好多零碎的东西，我们也开始录像。这个白女是一个惯犯，她非常清楚自己应该怎么做，她会用摄像头开闪光灯放在自己的脸边，以便自己不会被拍到。相比之下，另一位深肤色的就要显得稚嫩多了，她经验不足，只会捂着自己的脸，看来她也知道自己是错的。看来白女并没有告诉她的同伙，要怎么做一个合格的典型的常规的种族歧视者。这个过程持续了1分钟不到，立刻就有一个穿黑衣服的男生上来阻止我们，他不在乎眼前发生什么，他上来的第一句话就是告诉我，你们太吵了，你们要停下来。
我问，为什么不让她们停下来？她们攻击我们并且辱骂我们。她们先开始的。他毫无逻辑地说了一些话，大概就是不管他们做了什么那又如何，她们是孩子。
啊，多么充满希望的一个词。想必每一个在欧洲、在澳洲、在美国，被青少年骚扰过的人们，都明白在这场对抗中，孩子这个词的分量。
司机让我们都停下。我们都坐下了，但是很快她们又开始了。我们又被骚扰了很久，辱骂、攻击。这个过程我已经不想再回忆了，但是我们已经报警，并且警察承诺会取得公交车上的摄像纪录。
我们从一个非常善良，多次出言帮助我们的大叔那里取得了他的联系方式，他也答应我们愿意作为证人。
还有一位大叔，他主动远离了战场，他下车前，他也主动地说他很遗憾我们遇到这样的事情，他同情我们。可能是为了让我们好受一点吧，所以他说，或许那两个女生不是在针对我们，他们就是这样大范围的骚扰所有人。
非常遗憾的是，我不认可这位善良的先生说的话，因为这个白女显然是个惯犯，她非常清楚地知道怎么用假动作来恐吓别人，她会不停地假装要继续打我，做出向前冲刺的动作。就像恐怖片《痴迷》里Nikki那样。 当我做出躲闪的动作后，她会非常得意的大笑。 我实在是无法理解了，我忍不住问她们，你们为什么要这样？你们这样对我们，是因为你爸妈也是这样对你们的吗？他们变得非常愤怒。
一直到下车，他们都一直在语言攻击，和扔东西砸我们。她们在Margraten下车的时候，她拿更重的东西，拿口红和发夹开始砸我。 是的，还是我，不是我的男朋友。 我忍不住的想到the man的歌词， if I was a man.
欧洲是世界范围内女权做得很好的地方， 大家总是在说中国没有女权。但是我想告诉大家，如果这个地方真的有女权，首先人们会尊重女性，而不是看着女性弱小就可以选择性的欺负她。在两个她们认为是逆来顺受的中国人中，她们选择了看上去更好欺负的那个。女权最起码的原则是，女性应该感受到最起码的安全。很遗憾的是，女人独自在这里行走是不安全的。我在这里我不想展开了，相信在欧洲生活过的人都知道我在说什么。 我无法想象今天如果没有我男朋友，我会遇到什么。
【2】一车的人，甚至有好几个少数族裔，他们没有任何一个人站出来，实际意义地阻止这两个人。 是的，我不想再用女孩来形容他们了，我是人，他们也是人，我们应该是平等的，而不是因为我长得和他们不一样。
在我们取得了第一位善良的大叔的联系方式以后，我主动地去问那个绿色衣服的男人，我问他你是否愿意成为我们的证人呢？因为你就坐在我后面，你清楚地看到他们向我扔东西。他说他不愿意，我说，我能知道为什么吗？
他说不管如何，你录像就是你做错了。我有点不理解了，我说难道不是他们开始的吗？他们先辱骂我、他们先录像我、嘲笑我。她们享受看到我的惊恐和狼狈。他说了一堆很虚伪的话，说不管他们做了什么，你的生活还是你的。你需要做到和平。
我完全不理解了。我说你不想让德国变得更好吗？他说不重要。后来他在荷兰境内下车了，那这样说荷兰人确实不在乎德国会不会变好。那么荷兰呢？他希望荷兰会更好吗？
我能理解他不愿意介入这样的事情。但是我没有想到他开始教育我，他开始念诗，给我看他画的画。他画了一个面目狰狞的人（可能是想告诉我们，不和平就是丑陋的，或许是指我们）。他给我们读一首诗，他又用英语翻译给我们听，大概的意思就是不管别人做了什么，你过自己的生活。
他说了非常多。我男朋友耐着性子还保持着礼貌。但是我真的受够这种人的嘴脸了，太虚伪了，太伪善了。我真的受够了。就是这种人让欧洲变得越来越差，甚至他们会让人们在注意不到的地方，摧毁整个欧洲。我不知道他和一开始的那个黑衣服的男生说了什么。最开始黑衣服男生嬉皮笑脸地和我们对峙。但是他和绿衣服男人聊了一会，后来黑衣服的男生变得非常生气，用非常凶狠的眼神看我们。不仅如此，后来公交车上，居然还上来了好几个他的朋友，轮翻过来和我们对话，让我们删掉视频。我感到我的生命安全严重受到影响。我无法想象，一个原本只是觉得我们不要和女孩吵架的男人，是如何被其他人教唆成一个可能会带着帮派来欺负人的危险人物。
我真的觉得这个绿衣服的男人是最恐怖的人。如果说最开始那两个人是单纯的恶和愚蠢。那么这个绿衣服的白男，他则是非常典型的一部分我们经常能遇到的欧洲白男了。他们躲在身后，不仅不支持受害者，还要试图寻找任何一个可能的角度、去抓住细节、来攻击你、来反驳你。告诉受害者：你不是最完美的受害者。 我想必很多人都听过这句话，“你反而伤害了这些施暴者的感情。”
今天我在荷兰遇到一个特别有意思的人。我问他，你不想让德国变得更好吗？他说，doesn't matter.
今晚我和我的男朋友从荷兰马城回德国亚琛的路上遇到了我这一辈子第一次这么严重的种族歧视，即使我已经遇到很多次了。我遇到欧洲最肆无忌惮的群体，是的，是teenager。
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