Most men will interpret literally ANY positive interaction from a woman as flirting, build a whole delusion around it, then act like victims when she says she’s not into them. Being nice isn’t consent to your fantasy.
WOMAN TO WOMAN: Please stop sending men long texts after they hurt you. They don't care, and nothing you say will make them feel guilty. Take your dignity back and leave.
Hey sis, that guy you’re obsessing and ruminating over isn’t special. He was only “special” because you experienced yourself, in the form of all the love you poured into him. Your own love is what made him special. Hope that helps.