@shavil0mi@shagbark_hick Kids aren’t resilient. Almost every damaged, fcked up adult is in therapy because of something that happened to them in childhood.
@shagbark_hick There have been many studies that moving, especially far away, has a traumatic effect on a child’s psyche similar to death or divorce. Denying this is another one of those “kids are resilient” lie adults tell themselves to justify selfishness.
When I met my husband he was making himself unseasoned baked chicken breasts for dinner every night. One night he watched as I cooked and was amazed to learn about garlic powder. Then he spent months making himself baked chicken breasts with garlic powder.
@christlord00@BasilianThought@bosco6000000 Christians and particularly Catholics even preach that the ultimate authority over children is their father. Yet they normalize/sympathize/enable women raising children without their fathers and getting default authority? It’s such a tangled mess.
@christlord00@BasilianThought@bosco6000000 I don’t think she should be allowed to raise her children if she is single when they’re born. I think children are entitled to married parents, both present in the home. Death is different discussion.
@FeelsGuy2003@PepeMILFHunter “Supporting single moms” in the conservative Christian realm is a post abortion era feminist phenomenon. Feminists use abortion as an implicit threat when urging to support (normalize) unwed mothers. There is a third option, adoption, which is the only acceptable option.
@FeelsGuy2003 We need to go back to forcing adoption on unwed mothers. It basically erases the issue entirely. Returns the focus to the innocent child, who is entitled to married parents.
@iberiangrypr@FeelsGuy2003@TBzoomer Why shouldn’t a noble act be glorified and normalized?
I think we are so far gone on this issue people don’t know how upside down their thinking is. Even trads are pro single mom. It’s insanity.
@christlord00@BasilianThought@bosco6000000 Yeah. No hate on Nick. I think the whole tweet was just a show of loyalty, which is admirable. But normalizing unwed mothers and encouraging step dads is post abortion era feminism and a scourge on society. Unwed mothers should be shamed and bastards placed in adoptive homes.
@dumpy_groyp@NickJFuentes@ChromeBarracuda Or we could stop allowing women without men in the home to keep their babies? This is a new development in Christian societies.
@gingergroyper@NickJFuentes@ChromeBarracuda We shouldn’t allow innocent children to be stuck in the middle. In decent societies bastards were given up to be adopted by married, stable couples. Unwed women have no business raising an innocent baby without a father.
@HaveANiceDay880@bosco6000000@NickJFuentes@JxsiahM@ChromeBarracuda Do you know why there’s so much of it? Because nobody even conservatives or trads are willing to say out loud that’s it’s shameful and abusive to the kids. Instead men are lauded as heroes for bailing them out.