@nukepopnuke@dmoyeweirdnews @pipngarden @thechosenberg Vulnerable is not the same as telling me you're suicidal the first time you talk to me, my dude.
This is why you need to pay someone to listen to you and work through behaving like a human with you instead of trying to figure things out yourself.
@TrueDylanMax@Eli_B_Again@thechosenberg No. Treating women (wives and mothers in the past) as the emotional labor secretaries for men's more unseemly emotions has always been the way. This is just continuing the same but using women who aren't even married to/related to you to do it.
@ask_aubry Instead it should just be a crime to make her pregnancy excessively difficult. It's your baby. You owe the child a healthy start no matter what you think of the mother after making the kid.
@ask_aubry I actually tried to transition to carrying a purse at one point. It literally only held his medical devices as my phone goes in my back pocket. He still wouldn't hold it if I needed to go to the bathroom.
I stopped carrying it and told him to get his own bag.
@ask_aubry I don't carry a purse. Because I was scolded constantly as a child that if I was 'one of those women' I'd be seen as lesser by my dad.
Now as an adult, he constantly laments I have no purse because he wants me to carry his medical stuff for him.
@drplatonist1@ArmandDoma One of the rapiest porn creators, Max Hardcore, was active before the internet even existed. It hasn't gotten more rapey. People are just in denial about 'good old days' that never existed. His vids are now available online and still some of the most violent I've seen.
@DIguanadon @benslease @ArmandDoma Exactly this. Everyone likes their version of porn. Even the lonely housewives went mad for 50 Shades. It's 'that porn over there' that's really porn and too degenerate. Surprise pikachu when a law banning porn bans all of it, including their chosen type.
@j_n_foster Yes! A neighbor saw me doing this and I just could not get it. He came over, stood on it, still couldn't get it either and went to get a wrench to whack it until it gave. If you got time to record and laugh, go show us how you can do it better.
@NotWithThem4 @j_n_foster Because they're not to the stage of needing the jack yet. They, from the video, do not need to 'learn' anything. As they are doing exactly what they should be doing.
@HelpIm___@mad_max_997@RightWingCope Sadly it's their children who wind up suffering, just like the children of antivaxxers. They got vaxxed, they got old enough to have a robust immune system. It's their kids who always suffer from their stupidity.
@FelidaeRex@Carina_Amyth@ask_aubry That's a weird self-own for mankind. Admitting good men don't exist since 'I want a man who's good to me' is like the base of what any straight woman says she wants.
@Here_4BTS @RealFrozz@ask_aubry When they don't accept no means no, sometimes you gotta go with a 'fuck off!' to get your no across. And they earned every drop of it. (Even if she didn't start off polite, he earned it by doing it while she's at work. Do not romantically approach people who are stuck there.)
@lookouttacos@ask_aubry Man might as well just admit he wants a victim who has no hope of escape once he's trapped her. It saves space and says the same thing.
@Psychicchic74 @FMelonfarmer @ask_aubry I am hoping the friend just got told 'yo, I think I got too rough during sex. What do you think will make up for that?' Instead of this long version where it's obvious rape.
But I doubt it.
@cosmoksmom@mandieboox3@wallywelles@ask_aubry It's a survival mechanism. I'd be terrified to tell a man who just raped me (and has likely done this before) what I'm actually thinking about him after he's finished.