I can literally tell you what’s wrong with the majority of men in bed lmao:
- they skip foreplay or they think foreplay is just them getting a blowjob. They’re not taking the time to build tension with long makeout sessions, touching each other over your clothes, grinding against each other, long oral and hand stuff on each other, kissing each others bodies, etc. They just get hard and then maybe touch you for 90 seconds before they’re like “ok penetration!”. And if you’re a man who cums fast it’s literally insane to skip foreplay
- their dirty talk sucks or is nonexistent. Or they use the same with everyone. I don’t like the same dirty talk as another woman might. For example, if you degrade me or call me a slut/whore I’m leaving lol. You have to talk to your woman to figure out what phrases she enjoys.
- fingering by JAMMING THE FINGERS IN
- penetration happening for too long when there was not enough foreplay to warm up. Women are not like men. Most of us HAVE to be warmed up unless we’re so hot for you that your mere presence makes us wet, and that’s realllly rare. Just jackhammering away for an hour when we never even got properly aroused isn’t any good.
- not touching the clit oh my fucking GOD. So many of you act like it’s a special gift or a little treat to touch the clit during sex despite the fact that it should be fucking standard? SEVENTY FIVE PERCENT of women cannot orgasm regularly simply from PIV penetration!!!
- thinking that “the sex is complete when a man ejaculates”. If she didn’t get off why the fuck did you stop pleasuring her? Do you like having sex that ends without you getting off? Neither the fuck do we.
- asking AFTERR THE SEX if she came?? Are you INSANE?? Why aren’t you asking HOW you can make her cum while you’re still actively having sex and making sure she does before you put your fucking clothes back on and start scrolling the phone???
- ignoring erogenous zones like why are you not touching my breasts, my inner thigh, neck, ears, etc??? And not in the “I’m grabbing this body part because it makes MY boner stiffer” way, in a way that’s pleasurable to HER