A lot of traditional femdom is still ultimately built around male pleasure: the sub gets to experience humiliation, submission, worship, degradation, etc. The woman is dominant, but the experience is still designed around what HE wants to feel.
Findom takes that dynamic and puts the woman's desires at the center, the money isn't just a part in a male submissive fantasy. I want your money. I want access to your resources. I want to be financially, rewarded for my attention. I want to experience what it feels like to have power over you in a way that benefits ME.
Because insulting you, fucking you in the ass, or making you do disgusting things? That doesn’t benefit me at all, and that doesn't make you sacrifice ANYTHING.
That is exactly why so many people get salty about it, they’re perfectly comfortable with female dominance… as long as it remains a service industry for male desire. The second a woman builds a fetish where her pleasure, her standards, and her material gain are the priority, suddenly it’s “not real dominance,” “scammy,” or somehow offensive.
I can almost understand the subs for thinking that way, it just proves how deep the misogyny still runs, but other dommes? girl.....
Keeping in mind that I have a million BDSM kinks and I happily explore them with people I actually like… why the fuck would I do that for free (or cheap) with some random, ugly, broke loser on the internet with a shrimp dick?
Some weirdo msg me claiming that he made 52,000 on a PH video but couldn't afford my subscription nor my tribute. Where do men get the audacity 😭😣
#Findom#Finsub