Shay Shay🦋

Scorpio, 95’ #prudesworld🕊🥀 Fly High My Beautiful Gma. F.R.O.G Watch Over Me Love 💔🤧

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; lean not onto your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which paths to take. (proverbs 3:5-6) ❤️ my fav of all time.

[The woman @Tarmeim]

Sorry, but a partner who ruins your mental health cannot be the love of your life. Ever. I know you love them. I know you've built a future in your mind with them. I know you keep hoping they’ll change, that things will get better, that the good moments will eventually outweigh the bad.

But here's the truth you need to hear: real love doesn't destroy you. Real love doesn't leave you anxious, depressed, constantly questioning yourself, walking on eggshells, or losing pieces of who you are. That's not love, that's trauma bonding.

[🎀 @lilmissnothoein]

A nigga knowing all the fucked up shit he did to you & still thinking he deserves any type of grace from you is mind boggling.

[🎀MS.INDEPENDENT🫧 @_mekmek2]

It took me a long time to realize I’m not “toxic” for no reason… disrespect is my trigger. I’m naturally chill, loving, easy to vibe with, and I give grace way longer than most people deserve. But the moment I feel played with or disrespected, something in me switches. My peace disappears, my patience runs out, and that soft version of me gets real sharp, real fast. Not because I’m mean… but because I know how much love I lead with before I ever snap. What you give me is what you get back. I’m still learning… but I’m also very aware 🧘🏽‍♀️✨

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

Exactly like this

[J Girl @juliethardt]

My problem is..I want my braids 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐒𝐈𝐙𝐄😩😍

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

Don’t you hate when you get comfortable in the bed and then you gotta pee

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

I met the saddest version of me this year. I lost my spark, mind and everything

[Ϟ @XqiuzX]

I never wanted to argue, i just wanted you to understand how i felt.

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

Stg I would’ve

[Blissful✨ @ghostinheel]

If I could go back to the day I met him, I’d just stay home😭😭😭😭

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

Remember before HDMI cables where you had to match the colors to the TV like you were diffusing a bomb

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

pride has ruined more relationships than mistakes ever did. i don’t want perfection, i want someone who can communicate, apologize, and repair instead of turning every issue into a standoff.

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

Mfs be in relationships with NO dates, NO traveling, NO nothing, just arguing and laying down.

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

I love it when Black people say “here comes your friend” and when you look up it’s someone you hate

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

Swear

[Jordy 🫧 @babyjorrdy]

Why nobody ever wanna take accountability for the shit they be doing to me 😅 like EVER, I'm always in the wrong simply for my reaction.

[Jordy 🫧 @babyjorrdy]

Y'all ever dealt with a person so manipulative and draining that you literally just give up on trying to get your point across? Because all they do is PURPOSELY try not to understand and flip it back on you?

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

Some shit just don’t be attractive to me

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

I love my man so much

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

NOTED. Cause I’m not leaving and I’m done saying it.

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

If you want to spend your life with someone, you have to understand that there will be arguments, bad days, and good days, so learn to forgive. A relationship is more than just pictures and cute videos. Be humble.

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

I wouldn’t give up on him for anything in the world. ❤️ he’s my heart beat.

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

This time I did not want to be the one who left the relationship when shit got tough…I stayed. I apologized. I’m committed. And now I see the difference. What real love is and what it feels like to know someone wants to be with you through ALL your flaws. And baggage.

[Shay Shay🦋 @ASEXY_LIBRARIAN]

And with those kind of people they do not like to change.
For me he allowed me to tell him, he reflected on it, and he’s making the necessary changes to love me correctly and for that I’d give him the world. I found someone that melts my heart every second of the day.