Tatkal booking on IRCTC is joke. Ready at opening time, details filled, payment ready yet all I get is "Unable to Process Request" errors.If the system cannot handle predictable Tatkal traffic, what exactly are passengers supposed to do? @IRCTCofficial@PMOIndia@AshwiniVaishnaw
NOTE: So VCK’s Thirumavalavan was to announce his decision whether to support Vijay or not last evening. Then it became this morning 10 am, 12 noon, now pushed to 4 pm. When a 2 MLA so-called ‘social justice’ party can’t take a decision, then you know the pressures and bargaining behind the scenes. Mandate was surely not for this. Any guesses who is the puppeteer? Sordid demo-cash-crazy TN style!🙏😡
@NIKHILLJHA I have taken ADITYA BIRLA ACTIVE ONE Health insurance for me,my spouse and 8 year old son. It’s due on August. Shall I continue with the same or should I switch ??
This is purely my observation over the last decade in India.
I feel for men in India.
Especially, for the men of the current generation.
Society still expects them to be in a certain way, to conduct their life in a certain way. But Indian society has loosened it's grip on the way current generation females conduct their lives.
This is especially true in the case of job and earnings.
If a woman doesn't want to work, it's OK. If she is working, and wants to take a career break, it's OK. If she wants to take a step down in her career or switch careers, it's still OK. If she wants to aim for the stars, and achieve it, leaving behind her family duties, it's still OK. One fine day, if she is fed up and completely wants to become a homemaker forever, it's OK still.
The man will chin up and somehow manage the loss of the earnings from the wife. How do I know this??? Because, I see this in my clinic. When couples come to consult me, and it's evident that woman is at stress, the men whole heartedly ask thier wives to take a career break/step down. And quite a few woman have done it too.
If she is a homemaker and still doesn't want to take care of home, it's OK. There's always swiggy, zomato or the local restaurant. This continues for months on end.
If a career woman/ homemaker is unable to care of the home, they outsource this to someone else, it's still OK.
(Home = kids, husband, plus/minus both or one set of parents, and taking care of the myriad household chores)
It's ok for the woman of the current generation. Husband and everyone else rallies around her. No one wants to upset her. In so many families, the equation is lopsided, titling more towards the women.
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Then what about men??
Society still expects them to earn and take care of their families atleast financially.
What if they are fed up, stressed with their current job and and want to take a lesser paying job?? What if they want to take a career break and explore thier hobbies? What if they want to completely stop working for a while and want to rejuvenate themselves??? What if they want to change careers later on in life, and go with their passion.
Aren't they human too??
But then who will look after the home??
Will the wife now step in and take the whole burden of the home, of the financial side of things??
I think, the answer is a NO. How do I know this again?? I know it because, males comes and tell me their problems and they don't see any way out majority have resigned to the fact that they will have to earn until they are 60 years old.
Our parents generation, pendulum was tilted morw towards the males. In my generation, by and large bothbmales and females had some sort of equality. I have seen my age contemporaries, borh men and women step, and take the load.
But the current generation....i feel the pendulum has swung the other way. The roles have reversed from my parents generation to the current generation.
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