i really and truly adore people who handle me with care, it's even becoming a prerequisite to closeness with me. i don't think i have any time or interest in connecting with people who are careless with me and my emotions. it's just not worth it
this chapter of my life is called “why do i insist on over communicating & trying to find a deeper reason for their behavior so i can understand them more when i should just focus on the fact that their behavior is not aligning with what i need right now so i can move along."