There's something called "paralysis by analysis" it happens when you spend so much time weighing your options, searching for the "perfect" way or overthinking every detail that you end up doing nothing at all. The fear of making the wrong move replaces the courage to simply start
Paddy Pimblett just lost a brutal fight,
and instead of worrying about himself,
he used his airtime to tell men not to suffer in silence.
It's ok to not feel ok. Talk to someone.
Every time I see someone switch careers, I’m reminded that life is a journey of discovery. You can enjoy a course of study but find the actual work unfulfilling. It is okay to start over to find something you love. We are capable of evolving, so don't settle until you find it.
Just a reminder: you are NOT unusual, weird, or unlovable if you have:
- no one to see on Christmas Day,
- no presents, or
- no contactable relatives.
Very few people live the idealised version on TV. Those of us who live differently—whether by choice or trauma—matter as much.
Leaving my apartment for the first time in a week to buy cigarettes and coffee from the 7-11. It’s fucking awesome. I wouldn’t want to live any other way
Been in a serious relationship for a year and financially everything is easier.
He doesn’t contribute to my mortgage or bills, yet food is suddenly halved, takeaways and dinners out are possible, I have a lift home from the train, saving £100s in taxis.
Single tax is so real.
no no you don’t understand you being unaccomplished at 27 is reasonable as you are young and have your entire life ahead of you but ME being unaccomplished at 27 means it’s completely over for me and i will never be anything