Your spiritual rank is so high that you don't need to seek revenge or prove a point. Keep your heart pure, let people reveal who they are, and let life handle the rest.
Every girl should experience her own apartment, groceries in the fridge, candles lit, everything exactly how she wants it, and no man stressing her out. It really is a luxury experience.
Your entire nervous system relaxes when your finances are in order. Most anxiety is not a mental health problem. It is a cash flow problem. Fix the money first.