Las derrotas son huérfanas. Paradójicamente, son las que más padres y madres tiene, porque detrás de un resultado adverso hay millones de personas que dejaron de hacer la parte que les toca.
Unrelated, but back in school I had a hostel mate who was dating an actual genius. They were both in Mathematics. The guy worked insanely hard just to maintain a 4.2 GPA each semester, while his girlfriend casually pulled a 5.0.
In 2015, they had to borrow a course from my department, so they reached out and we formed a small night class group to study together. I didn’t even spend up to 40 minutes with them before it became obvious. this girl had already mastered everything. Meanwhile, her boyfriend (who was already very smart himself) was still asking questions.
Fast forward to results: she scored 95 (A). I struggled to get 70 (A).
When I later spoke to the guy about it, he said something that has stuck with me ever since: “Her failure range is 70–75 A… where brilliant people are fighting just to get a B.”
That was the moment I understood there are certain people you simply don’t compete with in life. And it’s not just in academics.
Just look at Lionel Messi.
You often wonder why Messi commands so much respect in the Argentine team and it “seems” Ronaldo doesn’t with the Portuguese team, this is primarily because Messi is a selfless person. He puts everyone and the team first. It’s never about him.
He’s not concerned about the records, he wants to put everyone on. He cares about everyone.
Lautaro Martinez was struggling one time to score goals, he was heavily criticised. Argentina had a penalty against Guatemala, I remember that game so much, Messi gave it to him. Lautaro later said in an interview that that gesture changed everything for him. He appreciated Messi publicly.
MacAllister once gave us an idea of how much respect Messi commands. He said everyone joked with him and called him ginger hair in the Argentine squad but he didn’t like it, he said Messi told the guys not to call him that anymore, and nobody dared say it again. Just imagine that level of respect.
Otamendi is close to retirement, and hadn’t scored in a long time for his country. Argentina played Zambia in April in a friendly match, they had a penalty, and Messi forced Otamendi to play it, it was a fun moment, the team was happy, this is what earns Messi respect.
De Paul once said in an interview that Messi does not prioritise himself, but he prioritises the team. He said Messi is so humble, respectful and accessible. This is what a leader is.
For someone who barely says anything, why does he command so much respect? Messi doesn’t go about telling them what he’s won in his career, no ego, he regards everyone, this is why they can die for him. So anytime you see everyone running for him, he didn’t have to remind them that he has carried them on their back before, so now they should carry him😭
Away from Argentina, who remembers when he got to Inter Miami, they gave him captaincy. When Inter Miami won their first trophy, it was time to lift the trophy, and Messi looked for Yedlin, gave him the captain band and they both lifted the trophy together. These are the things that earns you respect.
Listen to every team mate Messi has played with, it’s the same thing. He respects everyone, does not think he’s better than anybody, never arrogant. Never for once had he said he’s the best player, not once.
Isn’t it unbelievable that someone who has won everything in the game acts like a nobody, listen also to how David Beckham described him on STF.
For everything I have said, please verify it. If I can, I’ll post some of these moments in the comments.
In this video, Almada offered Messi his seat, but Messi turned it down and sat on the floor. The respect Almada has for him has tripled, that’s how you do it.
@ElChirincirco De repente surgió una buena generación de la selección de Portugal, vio la oportunidad de intentar ganar la WC, y se le olvidó que el debate había terminado el 18/12/2022.
Si estuvieran al nivel de Bosnia, ni se habría molestado en querer volver a figurar/estorbar.
• "You equalled Klose’s record and surpassed Ronaldo Nazario as player with the most goals in World Cup history?"
🚨🗣️ Leo Messi: "It is a great honor to be able to compete with all these greats, including Ronaldo Nazario… He is among the best players I have watched."
"Ronaldo Nazario was one of the greatest players of all time, and yet he is not in first place… So in the end, this is just a stat."