@fadafigure01@Usmanashafe You be capital mumu, donkey, he-goat 😂 who told you that we write JAMB in the North? We are given admission in our university of choice right from birth😎
I once had a client in Abuja. Mid thirties. Soft spoken. Very disciplined guy.
He worked in construction procurement. Not flashy money, but stable. Rent paid in Maitama. Car was clean, not new. Children in good schools. Life was not loud, but it was steady.
His wife was beautiful. Smart too. He met her when he was still managing a small project site in Kubwa he told me this. She married the potential in him, not abundance. And for years, she stood by him.
Then Abuja entered her phone.
Gym friends in Wuse 2. Instagram. Weekend brunches. Women whose husbands were senators, oil contractors, politicians. Soft life conversations entered her living room without knocking.
Comparison quietly became her daily diet. She started saying things like; “Is this all we will be?”, “Other women are traveling every month”, “You are too comfortable.”
The man noticed the shift. He tried to adjust. Took more risks. Took loans. Overworked himself. Still, Abuja was always showing her someone doing better.
One day, she met a man who checked all the boxes she thought she deserved. Big SUV. Driver. Access. Promises.
She left her marriage with two kids for that upgrade.
Six months later, the illusion cracked.
The man was married. She was a side arrangement. The money came with control. Silence. Disrespect. She could not post him. Could not complain. Could not demand.
By the time she wanted to return, the door was closed. Her former husband had healed quietly. Focused on work. Focused on the kids. Peace replaced pressure.
Today, she struggles with regret. Not because she left, but because she realized too late that hypergamy without self awareness does not upgrade a life. It often destroys it.
Abuja is not dangerous because of money.
It is dangerous because it constantly convinces people that what they have is never enough.
And some people ruin good lives chasing a lifestyle that was never meant to be theirs.
What am I saying? Lifestyle inflation ruins more homes than poverty.
The moment your desires grow faster than your income, pressure enters everything.
Not every “soft life” you see is real or sustainable.
Many are funded by debt, politics, or temporary access.
@YahyaMuhdAlamin@Citizen_IQ Kuma Allah ya tsaremu daga fahimtar wannan gurbataccen karatun naku har abada😂
Shugaba AlaihisSalam ya gama shan gwagwarmaya da wahala wajen shigo da mutane addini amma ku kullum koresu kukeyi tareda kashesu, kuma a haka kuke ganin daidai kukeyi saboda tsabar kifewar kai😂
@YahyaMuhdAlamin@Citizen_IQ Allah Sarki ɗan miskinin Habibi😂
Allah kuwa ya saka musu da alkhairi tnda basuyi brainwashing dina ba na koma korewa Shugaba AlaihisSalam al'ummarsa daga Rahama ba, kuma basuyi brainwashing dina ba na koma ta'addanci da sunan addini kamar yadda su ɗan Abdulwahhab suka koya muku
@Yasiraminuahmad@the_scholar1 Kaji tsinanne ɗan marasa tarbiyya. Sammmm baku san darajar Shugaba AlaihisSalam ba, abu kaɗan sai ku dinga saɓa misali da Janabi Mafi Girma da Tsarki. Zaku hadu da Allah
@Beatitudes1040@RayTilde Dimwit, do you think I or you can make that happen? No matter how outspoken you are in calling for a referendum, it will be useless without the backing of the politicians that benefit from this entity called Nigeria (including those from your region).
@Beatitudes1040@RayTilde We also have nothing in common with you children of ashawos, products of baby factories that none of you even know the actual number of Dads that he/she has😎
@isaaczeto@RayTilde Thank God they all have the same father, what about you son of an ashawo, a bastard product of baby factory that you don't even know the number of fathers that you have?🤓
Prophet Muhammads letter to Heraclius, the Byzantine Emperor (Eastern Roman Empire), inviting him to Islam—now preserved at the King Hussein Mosque Museum in Amman, Jordan. Many such relics are found in Turkish, Egyptian, Saudi and other museums and collections.
I know the VOICE since I'm a kid, with studio or not the voice is PURE, she is FATIMA KHALIL the voice behind MAL. ABDALLAH MATASA LAFIA's songs.
Time moves on......😥