you’re not supposed to carry yourself based on where you are currently, you’re supposed to carry yourself based on where you’re *going* to be
my friend: it’s not about what they think, it’s about what you know
I’m the most ambitious laidback person I know, my methods are unconventional but they work, my goal in life has never been to spread myself thin or move from a place of desperation/lack, which means that I’ll actively avoid the path everyone is taking, risk looking like fool then come out well rested and with more sustainable results.
There’s a method to the madness and allowing scarcity to cloud long term judgement is not it.
peak female experiences :
1. realizing u can wear whatever you want
2. becoming besties with your sister
3. friendships start turning 10+ years old
4. accepting your body
5. finally understanding your mother
6. de-centering men
7. developing a ferocious sense of self-love
I'm picky with who I love because I know my love is intense. I don't just love you on the surface, I love you to the core, I fall in love with the things that make you, you. I notice the smallest details and fall for them.
Whether as friends or lovers, I love affectionate people so much. Everything is so much better and sweeter when you connect with affectionate people as an affectionate person.
even platonically, i love intensely. intimacy is not reserved for romance. i will always respect peoples boundaries, but i think a lot of people are taken back because they've never been loved for the sake of being loved. i don't want anything. i just really love my friends