For a man to make up his mind that he wants to get married, it's always a tough decision.
He knows what it'll entail & the responsibilities he would carry.
Don't make it easy for him to be a father without being a husband.
He will choose the former & stagnate your life.
End.
This is a reminder that these mf is a thief and he goes around begging people on social media for help and after you loan him money he will deactivate his account, create new ones and move to the next person ,useless Gabriel Amos Alechenu who lives in Abuja and he has a daughter
@Itz_Surrez @instablog9ja I know him on twitter, but I only help him because he was crying for help to pay for blood when his pregnant girlfriend was in the hospital, I never knew he was a thief and begger on twitter
@Nightmares0007@Alechenu Gabriel has refuse to pay back the money I loan him since last year October 2022!!!! This shameless boy came to me crying for help and after I loaned the money he deactivate his WhatsApp and create a new Twitter account , he is always under giveaway acc
In the dating market, an 18 year old lady is the same age with a 23 year old guy.
A 20 year old lady is the same age with a 25 year old guy.
A 25 year old lady is the same age with a 30 year old guy.
A 30 year old lady is the same age with a 35 year old guy.
This is why as a man you shouldn't settle for a lady born same year as you. She's not your age mate. She's 5 years older.
You have to be 5 years older than her before you're on the same level with her.
This is the standard.
By nature, every woman has a 5 year head start & they all subconsciously know this & apply it in practice.
This is why in their prime, women don't ever respect or want to date their age mates. They all prefer older men because they believe those are men qualified to rub shoulders with them. Their age mates are not on their level.
Thus if she's 20, she mentally adds 5 years to her age & covets a 25 year old guy, or even older.
Another way women apply this rule is in Age reduction.
This helps you to understand why a lady reduces her age when she's past her prime.
She knows that a 30 year old man wouldn't jump at the idea of wifing her up if she tells him she's same age with him. Thus she reduces it by 5, if not more, to buy his interest & ring.
Thus she bends her age to her favour, ever conscious of her fleeting value.
In her prime, she mentally increases it & go after older, independent & well established men.
Past prime, she reduces it to accommodate her age mates whom she once scorned.
It's all a game. And women are natural players. She knows what she's doing.
The question is:
Do You Know What You're Doing?