just APOLOGIZE to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… all that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. people love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.
All relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. Repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change
Being able to call and depend on a man is a flex. I mean yes I can absolutely handle things on my own but just knowing my life is a little easier because I'm supported and someone always has my back is top tier to me🥺
Most women do not cry over the man. They are crying over themselves, the effort they put in, the hope they had, the delusion they believed, and the reminder that love has not rewarded them.
Men who can't communicate think everything is an argument, and men who lack accountability think everything is an attack. And that's exactly why she shuts down, becaus explaining herself feels like defending herself... and no matter what she says, you always make her out to be the problem!!
If you lack emotional intelligence we will never work out fr. I’m not teaching you how to apologize, how to take accountability, or how to treat me with respect. These are basic qualities you should already possess before entering a relationship.
Losing a man who never planned dates, left you on read for hours, cancelled last minute, always had other priorities and made you question where you stand... is not losing anything at all.
One thing l'll never do again is deal with emotionally unavailable, non romantic, nonchalant men. Just a waste of time begging them to understand where you coming from
If someone only "loves" you when you do exactly what they want and withholds that love when you're not behaving "correctly". That's not love. It's control.