@bbyybratt I literally feel the same. Sometimes its unbearable to look at myself in the mirror, I used to not go to the bathroom with the lights on it was so bad
@seobfromtherear @loftiadev You should definitely join the loftia discord server. They devs and community managers are decently active and are always taking suggestions for this type of thing.
@iconic_puppy Trust me, I did that for a long time and it destroyed my mental health for a long long long time. You will heal and recover from letting them go if they are hurting you. You wont recover from destroying yourself to hang on to someone who wants to let go.
@iconic_puppy Im sorry to hear that. I know its rough to try to take care of someone you love and for them to cause pain for you, but its important to know when to let go. Its not that they aren't worth saving. Its that you need help too. You cant spend your whole life playing therapist.
@sweetbbybunn - some person may recognize that. Try to cut out the toxic people in the space, surround yourself with healthy people who are not jerks or weird in the space and that can help you connect easier. Don't just hang around someplace because they share a common interest. Seek peace yk
@sweetbbybunn I would recommend just focusing on yourself. I know its difficult to try to navigate this kink/fetish/headspace while being single, but it pays to be in a good place yourself and not rely on others to fill the gaps in your life. Eventually while you work on yourself-