You have to walk around knowing you are that mf while also remembering that you are nobody who knows nothing. Highest levels of consciousness can simultaneously hold both.
If you tell women to change their behaviour to avoid being raped, what you’re really saying is, “make sure he rapes the other girl instead.”
There will always be a woman who is more vulnerable less sober, less confident, with fewer friends around her, or walking alone in a darker part of town.
She deserves to be safe just as much as I do.
Safety shouldn’t depend on which woman was easier to target that night. The problem isn’t women’s behaviour. The problem is men who choose to commit rape as an act of violence.
"single mother", "fatherless", and "daddy issues" are all examples of a man's failure, and yet they are almost exclusively used as insults towards women. please make it make sense!
I saw a post that said:
“Men really think if you liked them once, you’ll like them forever. Baby, I don’t even like the version of me that liked you.”
Listen. YES. This