Miss Lana

Dominatrix • Erotic Identity & Sex Coach
kink, sex, submission, men & whatever else is on my mind
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[Miss Lana @AccordingToLana]

One of the most interesting things about kink is how often “I want you to control me” actually means “I want to trust someone enough that I can stop controlling everything.”

[Miss Lana @AccordingToLana]

the easiest subs to deal with are usually the ones who understand that access is a privilege, not an entitlement.

[Miss Lana @AccordingToLana]

Ghosting your Dominant because you’re overwhelmed or embarrassed doesn’t make the feelings go away. Say you need space. Say you went too far. Say you need to slow down. Silence usually makes the drop worse for everyone.

[Miss Lana @AccordingToLana]

THE three d’s:
dominance. degradation. devotion.