Even if you have money, there’s nothing as beautiful as having a man who takes care of you, spoils you, makes life easier and loves seeing you happy. If you like marry stingy man, your eyes go peel.
I get all of you saying don’t bill men yada yada (pls your man is not your trick)
But genuinely a lot of men lead with what they can offer you lol and also a lot of men have nothing else to offer you
So idk
Find middle ground and do what you like mehn
I hate the term decenter money. People of God, you live and exist in a capitalist environment, you can never decenter money unless it is not important to your survival.
One month into Mobile Dev with @TechCrushHQ !📱
After backend, I wanted to understand how mobile apps are built and how everything works together.
This month: React Native, navigation & my simple MySpend screen!
Learning, debugging, growing. 🌱
#TechcrushOneMonthRecap
Still remember the ex that got angry whenever I had any issues with her hanging out with her different "somebody" , according to her why can't I be the boyfriend who would let her go on dates so she can come back and we'd crack jokes about how the dates went 🥲
cheating doesn’t always have to be sexual -it’s also entertaining other people knowing fully well they like you ,it’s going on a date ,accepting gifts when you know the intentions behind it ,giving numbers out —the only time you should entertain anyone is business .
My friend had been married for six years and had always been the one supporting her husband financially.
When he lost his job, she paid the rent, school fees, bills and even sent money to his family.
She never complained because she believed, “When things get better for him, things will get better for both of us.”
Last year, he finally got a very good job.
His salary was almost three times what she earned.
The first month he got paid, he transferred her £500.
She was shocked.
She asked, “What is this for?”
He replied, “For all the years you held me down.”
She smiled.
Then he added, “But please don’t expect this every month. I have my own plans now.”
She asked what he meant.
He said, “I’ve suffered enough. Now I want to enjoy my money.”
She reminded him that she had spent almost all her savings keeping their household running when he had nothing.
He replied:
“I never asked you to do all that.”
What would you do?
I will forever be grateful to the person that advised me to get a steam deck over PS5, cost more money but you will be more tuned to it, compared to Ps5