OBSESSION was so disturbing and uncomfortable because the casual selfishness of a man is a terrifying thing. Even a man you trust, even a man you think is your friend, you have no idea what autonomy they would steal from you if given the chance and that's horrifying
the goal is to be like Dua Lipa (good at what she does, pursuing her passion, rich, well read, always travelling and exploring new cultures, fashionable, promoting the arts, multilingual, politically aware)
dua lipa is super kind, politically aware, makes great music, spends her time & money traveling and exploring different cultures, and now she’s married to the man of her dreams.
yeah, dua has won at life. 🥹